Compulsive Cheater?, looking for advice.. |
 May 11 2006, 06:21 PM
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It really bugs me to have to ask cB for help, but I can't ask my girls and I certainly can't ask my boyfriend.
I've dated this guy for two and a half years. He knows me inside out, accepts my flaws, helped me when I was suicidal, got me through cutting, stays up with me at night. He's my best friend, without question. Last year I cheated on his with someone I knew. The guy I cheated with was a friend, but I wasn't emotionally attached. I started to thing that I wasn't in love with my boyfriend anymore. The combined things put us in a bit of a fight and after two weeks of being apart I realized I was miserable without him. I was lonely and became completely cold hearted. Just honestly cruel and icy to the point that even I was shocked at myself. Plus I realized I was in love with my ex so we talked a lot and I begged and pleaded (oh so humbling) and we got back together. He forgave me (in fact he's friends with the guy) but I've never forgiven myself. So its a year later. My eye started wondering towards another guy (vaguely considered a friend to me) after I had two dreams about cheating with him (while one of my friends watched and smiled no less  ) and just last night I had another dream about cheating on my boyfriend with some other guy (who I don't even like!). I don't know whats going on with me anymore. Is this a phase or something? I'm really starting to worry about myself.
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May 12 2006, 09:51 AM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
I think you're just taking him for granted. We all are guilty for doing that at some point or another; when you lost him, you realized that he was an important person in your life. When you guys got back together, you think he's going to stay with you no matter what-whether it was a conscious thought or not. If you do cheat on your boyfriend again, if he has any self-respect, he will leave you. Think about the consequences to your actions; if you don't want to risk breaking up with him, then control your urges.
I suggest you think about Uronacid's suggestions and interpretation of your dreams; I totally agree with them. |
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[Mediocre]Artist Compulsive Cheater? May 11 2006, 06:21 PM
tainted_angel I think at some point or another, a lot of people ... May 11 2006, 06:50 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b Since you've been noticing other guys you... May 11 2006, 06:51 PM Uronacid alright, to explain your dream... did you talk abo... May 11 2006, 07:49 PM
[Mediocre]Artist QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 11 2006, 7:49 PM) al... May 11 2006, 08:17 PM xbabyboo Wow..I think you should think about being single o... May 11 2006, 08:15 PM Uronacid but did you tell anyone that you were thinking abo... May 11 2006, 08:32 PM [Mediocre]Artist QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 11 2006, 8:32 PM) bu... May 11 2006, 08:41 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo Its hard I know. I took me a week with out my bf a... May 11 2006, 08:35 PM Uronacid do you know who the person was that is staring at ... May 11 2006, 09:02 PM Paradox of Life Basically, you're being selfish. You just want... May 11 2006, 09:10 PM Uronacid QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ May 11 2006, 10:1... May 11 2006, 09:12 PM Paradox of Life ^QUOTELast year I cheated on his with someone I kn... May 11 2006, 09:17 PM [Mediocre]Artist *sigh* Paradox is just saying the harsh truth that... May 11 2006, 09:42 PM This Confession well no one get mad at uronacid.
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Anyway i... May 12 2006, 12:48 AM yanners I personally think that maybe the two of you need ... May 12 2006, 04:29 AM My Cinderella. It seems to me that you're having trouble find... May 12 2006, 06:26 AM Uronacid alright, ill give you my best advice, and ill give... May 12 2006, 08:46 AM Uronacid yeah im really intrested in what she thinks of my ... May 12 2006, 10:37 AM [Mediocre]Artist =) Thanks guys cause everything you say is true. ... May 12 2006, 04:42 PM Uronacid i completely understand how you feel May 13 2006, 10:40 PM agiri honestly, i think you're beginning to take you... May 14 2006, 02:21 PM xmoon_lightx If i were you i would stick with him. Hes been the... May 14 2006, 07:48 PM |
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