do you think its posible, to force yourself to like a guy? |
 May 7 2006, 02:14 PM
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do you think its possible to make urself fall in love with a guy?
because i gave up on A because he wouldnt even talk to me and the only time he ever acknowledged the fact that i even existed was when he said "hey, lisas back" back on monday, when i came back from an fbla state competition (which, btw, was AWESOME!). i figure that i want to like one of the guys that like me (J, H, K, VW) oh yeah, VC stopped liking me ... or so it seems.. i want to like J because hes REALLY REALLY nice and sweet, but hes a senior.. im a freshman... and if he goes away to college i NOE im gonna miss him like crazy. or H because hes nice too, but i can only think of him as a big brother, or K .. but well, hes not exactly the nicest guy to H... and idk if i can keep up with hosility.... > <" ... and VW is just out of question........ there are more guys that "like" me but i just wanna stay friends with them for now, since they havent told me that they like me.. their friends did.... |
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May 11 2006, 11:34 PM
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Few months ago, I met this girl. She was very nice, and fun. She was in my calc class, but we were also in a club together. She's a physics major. I'm comp sci, but I like most of the natural sciences, so that was cool with me. It made sense to try to go out with her sometime. She was interested (as the events of one party showed—but that's a different story), so it could've worked out. Maybe would've even been fun. The problem is, I wasn't attracted to her. She made a lovely friend, but I wasn't seriously interested in anything more than that.
Which was weird. She was cool. We had a lot in common. She was nice-looking. She wasn't seeing anyone. I wasn't seeing anyone. I had nothing going on. It made sense—except I wasn't interested. Now, admittedly, it had been a long time since I had meant anyone that really attracted me for any sort of longer-than-short-term relationship. But I still remembered what it felt like to like someone. And that's the point of my anecdote: You'll know when you like someone. You'll get that feeling. So no, I don't think you can truly force yourself to like someone. And unfortunately, you can't force yourself to get over someone, either. It just has to happen on its own. You get over someone by finding someone even better. Sometimes it takes a while, but it'll happen—and when it does, you'll know. |
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flypigzfly do you think its posible May 7 2006, 02:14 PM
aznxdreamer it depends i guess. you could think that you like ... May 7 2006, 02:39 PM elainedcuzunome my friend thinks that she did. 'cause she thou... May 8 2006, 05:14 PM colleen92 if you spend time with a guy, you'll almost al... May 8 2006, 05:27 PM ashopely yes, i believe that it is very possible. i also b... May 8 2006, 07:01 PM Uronacid right, the best thing you can do is let emotions d... May 8 2006, 10:15 PM ms. independent they did it all the time to other people back in t... May 8 2006, 10:46 PM Chii It's very possible but it doesn't seem lik... May 9 2006, 11:47 PM msladyliberty I don't know about "forcing" yoursel... May 10 2006, 12:34 AM Sparkle09 I do think it's possible to force yourself to ... May 10 2006, 06:31 PM lit0chinagirl yeah, like they all said. if you spend enough time... May 10 2006, 06:42 PM My Cinderella. I don't think so. You can't feel something... May 10 2006, 08:09 PM xbabyboo I agree with Chii..You shouldn`t force yoursel... May 10 2006, 08:11 PM flypigzfly thank you all, but im not trying to like someone b... May 11 2006, 11:23 PM My Cinderella. So basically, are you trying to get over him? May 11 2006, 11:27 PM |_ittle flying cow I don't think so. but you might find someone y... May 11 2006, 11:52 PM This Confession don't force yourself to like anyone
like them ... May 12 2006, 02:06 AM yanners Why do you want to force yourself to like someone ... May 12 2006, 04:24 AM AZN_DRAGON It is possible, but it wouldnt work. Take this adv... May 12 2006, 04:26 AM xmoon_lightx The more time you spend with them the more you... May 14 2006, 09:11 PM flypigzfly well thanks you all bunches. nope im already over ... May 15 2006, 01:46 AM emazing Nope. If he doesn't show any interest that h... May 16 2006, 07:12 PM
flypigzfly okay thanks to you all :] hmm yup. i think i like ... May 18 2006, 07:40 PM |
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