Would you fight over a girl/boy with your best friend?, Honestly |
Would you fight over a girl/boy with your best friend?, Honestly |
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May 10 2006, 07:52 PM
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Would you ever risk the chance of ruining a great friendship for a guy/girl. Why or why not?
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May 10 2006, 08:07 PM
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Depends on a number of factors really. How long have you known your best friend? If it's a best friend, I'm assuming it's a long time friendship. Second, how badly do you really want this guy/girl? Like, do you see you and them in the future in a long term relationship? Or is it just a fling? Or do you just want the guy/girl so that your friend can't have him/her? There's a saying that goes "You want what you can't have" so is it that your friend likes this guy/girl that you want them?
Generally, I'd say it's a bad idea to risk a great friendship over something as trivial as a guy/girl. Friends can last for life, while relationship can be blown apart as fast as they got together. Think about it. Do you wanna lose a friend for life over a relationship that may only last two months? Think about it. Though perhaps I'm not the best person to answer this. Recently me and this girl stopped being friends because the guy that she likes happened to spend more time with me and she thinks that I'm taking him away from her. And what ended up happening was us braking it off with each other and the guy spending more time with me. But I'm not saying that's gonna be the case for every time. My case was just...really off and weird to begin with, so you shouldn't take that as advice or anything. Me and the guy are getting along just fine and he's acting like the girl that I stopped being friends with doesn't exist...well lately he's been ignoring her. But again, I'm not saying that's gonna be the case. So take thing sinto consideration. Do you really wanna ruin a friendship over a guy that probably won't be all that important in your future? |
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My Cinderella. Would you fight over a girl/boy with your best friend? May 10 2006, 07:52 PM
tainted_angel ^I agree.
Every situation is pretty much diverse,... May 10 2006, 08:09 PM
xbabyboo ^^I agree with the top 2 posts..depends.. May 10 2006, 08:10 PM
I'm Alex... rawr! QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ May 10 2006, 5:52 ... May 10 2006, 08:23 PM
icecoldtears1234 i wouldnt necessarily fight over who gets the guy,... May 10 2006, 08:29 PM
Hina-chan The guy would have to be pretty darn important for... May 11 2006, 12:03 AM
YourPrettyFaceIsGoingToHELL My bestfriend, my brother, my twin, my life,
once ... May 11 2006, 05:26 AM
TAiNTEDxMEMORiES Been there, done that, lost. They date now. And we... May 11 2006, 09:29 AM
silver rain It really depends on how well I know the guy, and ... May 11 2006, 05:22 PM
Intoxique QUOTE(robb0 @ May 10 2006, 6:05 PM) A fri... May 11 2006, 06:29 PM
Uronacid no way! bro's b4 hoes!!!!... May 11 2006, 08:56 PM
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This Confession no
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when the ... May 12 2006, 02:12 AM
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