bah, relationships are confusing |
bah, relationships are confusing |
May 9 2006, 08:50 PM
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![]() life is beautiful ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,856 |
alright, so i'm in this relationship with a guy. and we've been at it for a year and a half. the only thing that bothers me is that he rarely shows much affection. i mean, we talk to each other and stuff like that, and we've gone on a couple of dates. the only "intimate" thing we've ever done was hug and give a few gifts to each other. but sometimes he's so confusing. it seems as if he ignores me at some points, and i'm always the one who makes the first move to do something. my friends even went to verify whether or not he still likes me because they weren't sure if he did. but he still does...
ahhh. anyways. i really like him alot, but he's the most confusing, somewhat shy guy i've ever met. what should i do? it's so awkward to keep asking him out on dates and stuff since he's so...shy. and it's kind of embarassing to ask stuff like this on some forum with people you don't even know. but that can sometimes be a good thing... |
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May 10 2006, 12:41 AM
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![]() msladyliberty ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,766 |
It reminds me of the time I dated this "shy guy," who turned out to be my highschool sweetheart of 2 1/2 years!! Yea, it's hard to figure shy guys out! My patience ran out!! 'Cuz I hated it! I'd always have to *guess* what he wanted to do...or how he feels. Well...communication is the most important part of the relationship. If that is well maintained...then there shouldn't be a problem. BUT...from what I read...it looks like there isn't a stable communication between you two. If it were me, I'd tell the guy to "man-up" and give me the time of day...for my sake! |
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purrfecto bah May 9 2006, 08:50 PM
YourPrettyFaceIsGoingToHELL Maybe this is new to him and he
doesn't know w... May 9 2006, 09:08 PM
LadyXTor I'd talk to him about it, maybe ask him to be ... May 9 2006, 10:50 PM
helllla jankyyyy finally, a girl who posts a topic about her relati... May 9 2006, 10:56 PM
Chii You need to ask him what he wants and tell him wha... May 9 2006, 11:28 PM
tainted_angel I think that maybe in the beginning, he wasn't... May 9 2006, 11:33 PM
_sarcastic_ talk it out with him and tell him what you want fr... May 10 2006, 05:55 AM
My Cinderella. In my opinion, he seems like a shy guy. You need t... May 10 2006, 08:10 PM
xbabyboo Umm..I would talk to him..ask if straight up if he... May 10 2006, 08:12 PM
purrfecto well i know he likes me because he said so before.... May 10 2006, 08:25 PM![]() ![]() |