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Pretty girls + low self esteems = Bad combo
BryMonster
post May 9 2006, 05:33 AM
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I'm just looking for a logical explanation here.
There's a lot of girls at my school, that have
extremely really low self esteems. These girls
are gorgeous. Most of them are my friends,
and they are always putting themselves down.
Why is it that girls have low self esteems? Do
you think it can be attention-wise?

I've seen a ton of pretty girls get out of good
relationships because they have bad thoughts,
about themselves. Wtf, mate.

Any ideas?
 
 
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Chii
post May 9 2006, 11:25 PM
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I have good days and bad days. On good days, I can look at myself and be like, "damn I look good." But that really gets to my head because I'll go walking down the street looking at other girls thinking, "don't you wish you looked like me?"

On my off days I'm just really insecure. Those days just happen, I'll wake up and feel crappy. I'll think that I look like sh*t and try on everything I own and still be unhappy with the way I look. Some guy will try to hit on me but I'll get pissed for some reason and just get even more discouraged when I see a girl with a better body than mine...meaning my size yet well endowed. I am very not well endowed and that is the root of my insecurity. The rest of me is fine but I just wish I could fill out something, anything well.

I don't wear make up or wear padded bras or whatever because I'm really into the whole natural beauty thing. When guys hit on me, it reassures me that guys appreciate the real me...but with this plastic surgery thing growing, I'm not so sure if it will last. The guys I've dated told me that they didn't care but I just don't believe them. In my mind it's like, "How can you not care? Breasts are what make women, women."

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You may think that someone is gorgeous but that person won't think so or maybe that person is having an off day.
 

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YourPrettyFaceIsGoingToHELL   Pretty girls + low self esteems = Bad combo   May 9 2006, 05:33 AM
deus_ex_machina   Hmm... I'm not really sure. Maybe one of the r...   May 9 2006, 06:02 AM
starlette   thats how i feel. because all my friends are damn...   May 9 2006, 06:33 AM
Angelina Taylor   Some of them want to look like the models/stars th...   May 9 2006, 08:49 AM
No Fear   insecurity I guess?   May 9 2006, 11:08 AM
Uronacid   ^yep i think its just how they think and who they...   May 9 2006, 12:48 PM
DORKalicious   blame it on magazines and pornography.   May 9 2006, 06:20 PM
This Confession   ^yea you can blame them if you want or be a bigger...   May 9 2006, 07:00 PM
seremela_culnamo   I can't say much because I hate myself and I h...   May 9 2006, 10:22 PM
Chii   I have good days and bad days. On good days, I can...   May 9 2006, 11:25 PM
msladyliberty   Hmm...I think it's just mainly because girls l...   May 9 2006, 11:30 PM
tainted_angel   Self-satisfaction in appearance is very hard to fi...   May 9 2006, 11:51 PM
lil_nat_cat   The media has pretti much set out the rule of what...   May 10 2006, 06:03 AM
belzerroxx   i personnally blame magazines and the media so ma...   May 10 2006, 06:41 AM
xbabyboo   Moods change..Sometimes people ruin someone`s ...   May 10 2006, 09:01 PM
sayitaintso   i read somewhere that however beautiful a girl may...   Jun 11 2006, 03:50 AM
sheepy   i'm not sure. maybe they strive to look like t...   Jun 11 2006, 05:54 PM
sadolakced acid   wait you're complaining? insecure girls are e...   Jun 11 2006, 06:51 PM
My Cinderella.   It's mostly insecurity. There should be a litt...   Jun 12 2006, 03:13 PM
APPLEjuicex   wel, i think its because theyre not .."hot....   Jun 12 2006, 03:50 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(APPLEjuicex @ Jun 12 2006, 4:50 PM)...   Jun 12 2006, 08:03 PM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(APPLEjuicex @ Jun 12 2006, 4:50 PM)...   Jun 12 2006, 08:04 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 12 2006, 9:04...   Jun 12 2006, 08:05 PM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jun 12 2006, 9:05 PM) ye...   Jun 12 2006, 09:26 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 12 2006, 10:2...   Jun 12 2006, 09:28 PM
Steph Chan   I don't know what's up with that. That...   Jun 12 2006, 09:34 PM
sw33t_rouge   i have low self esteem..i think alot of people do....   Jun 13 2006, 08:11 AM


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