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May 7 2006, 07:08 PM
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Ok, I'm not even sure I'm supposed to be posting in this place, I dont care if you delete this topic--but I really need some answers.
Ok, first of all, since my problem is about a girl, I figured GIRLS would be most helpful, seeing as most guys are absolutely dee-dee-dee when it comes to relationships. Ok, so to the point. I met my ex girlfriend in 6th grade, she moved away, I continued living there for a few years, then I met her again in 8th grade. We started going out. I realize theres alot of people arguing that 15 year old's dont know what love is, but whatever--THAT, that was love. No f**king doubt in my mind. I fell completely for her. Absolutely and totally devoted to this one girl. She was perfect to me, abso-f**king-lutely perfect. A few months in, I thought it would make her happy to give her a ring for our 6th month anniversary. So, I got a job, babysat, mowed the lawn, in short, I broke my goddamn back and managed to get around 750 dollars. I went to a jewlerers, and got her the prettiest ring I could get her with 750 dollars, then I gave it to her. I like, kinda proposed half jokingly to her, like "Danielle, would you marry me?" But then I saw her reaction, and I was actually shocked. So we were engaged. I bought her a necklace sometime later, (which wasn't cheap by the way) Months passed by filled with so much love and happiness I probaly should have died then, cause I don't think I can experience uplifting joy like that ever again. I wrote her poems every single week. Everytime we met I kissed her on the cheek. Sex wasn't even on my mind, cuddling was enough for me. We were perfect. I loved her. She loved me. Then I found out, the day before my birthday and a few days before our one year anniversary, that she's been cheating on my, the.WHOLE.damn.time. She's had sex with two other guys, and was messing around with a few others. I won't delve into all the melodramatic weeks that followed, but to say the least, my world fell apart, cried for days on end, and so on. Now, I come here, just wanting to know, was there anything I did wrong? I mean, If I could I'd have given the world to this girl, and I tried. I didn't even look at a girl twice for nearly a year, she was my life. So...yeah, thats pretty much it. And all I want to know, if theres ANYTHING you think I could've did better, or something I did wrong. I'm just looking for answers. -Sorry for being so long...and thanks to anyone who helps. Then, I found out |
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May 9 2006, 05:29 AM
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You did nothing wrong. If anything, you were being the sweetest boyfriend possible. Sometimes girls think to themselves ,"He's too good for me." I know this, because I've been given that as a lame excuse. Probably that's why girls cheat. Was there any sign the entire time, that she was giving you a bad vibe or something? |
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SoManyTearz looking for an answer.. May 7 2006, 07:08 PM
tainted_angel You did nothing wrong.
It's her fault..for tak... May 7 2006, 07:13 PM
Babii_BoA wow that must be really hurtful, from what i read,... May 7 2006, 07:16 PM
SoManyTearz Its just so unbelieveable, I mean, do you think I ... May 7 2006, 07:18 PM
Babii_BoA QUOTE(SoManyTearz @ May 7 2006, 8:18 PM) ... May 7 2006, 07:20 PM
Chii Judging by what you said, it seemed like you were ... May 7 2006, 08:06 PM
SoManyTearz QUOTE(Chii @ May 7 2006, 8:06 PM) Judging... May 7 2006, 09:33 PM

This Confession QUOTE(SoManyTearz @ May 7 2006, 10:33 PM)... May 7 2006, 09:40 PM
mipadi QUOTE(Chii @ May 7 2006, 9:06 PM) I think... May 8 2006, 10:58 AM
x3Death.By.Knife. Wow, I can definately tell you that you did NOTHIN... May 7 2006, 08:26 PM
This Confession QUOTE(x3Death.By.Knife. @ May 7 2006, 9:2... May 7 2006, 09:32 PM
lalalaLANUH Awww. Poor child.
While I feel sad for you, I ... May 7 2006, 08:34 PM
_sarcastic_ you sound like a really great bf to me from what i... May 7 2006, 09:09 PM
SoManyTearz QUOTE(lalalaLANUH @ May 7 2006, 8:34 PM) ... May 7 2006, 09:43 PM
This Confession QUOTE(SoManyTearz @ May 7 2006, 10:43 PM)... May 7 2006, 09:44 PM
SoManyTearz well..
I DO like other people, but I have no confi... May 7 2006, 09:58 PM
This Confession you should never think down about yourself like th... May 7 2006, 10:07 PM
SoManyTearz too late? May 7 2006, 10:11 PM
yanners Well, if she cheated on you, don't take her ba... May 8 2006, 04:00 AM
Your pain is not love I feel so sorry for you. I kind of want to cry rea... May 8 2006, 07:44 AM
xCrys ^ Took the words right out of my mouth...
You wer... May 8 2006, 09:18 AM
xmy_sweet_revengex Hey, as much as i can see there you did nothing wr... May 8 2006, 10:30 AM
SoManyTearz thanks guys...but come on, cheating on me 4+ times... May 8 2006, 05:52 PM
Uronacid im going to tell you what i told my friend anthony... May 8 2006, 10:43 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS dude you seemed like the perfect boyfriend any gur... May 8 2006, 11:05 PM
x___F0RG0TTEN aww that's so sadd *tear* haha kk sorry i get ... May 8 2006, 11:23 PM
YourPrettyFaceIsGoingToHELL You did nothing wrong. If anything, you
were bein... May 9 2006, 05:29 AM
Uronacid also, she could have just been an abusive bitch...... May 9 2006, 12:52 PM
chasingvictory oh man, I'm sorry dude. I feel your pain. You ... May 9 2006, 01:45 PM
nikkkkki maybe there was too much..clinginess? sometimes a ... May 9 2006, 05:34 PM
SoManyTearz thanks to everyone, really.
and just so you know..... May 9 2006, 06:07 PM
Your pain is not love Don't take her back. I want to break her face. May 9 2006, 06:24 PM
SoManyTearz im really trying not to.
but her acting like this,... May 9 2006, 06:43 PM
priyas ^^Maybe she felt you were too possesive.
Anyways,... May 9 2006, 08:33 PM
SoManyTearz "Maybe she had sex just cuz she wanted to exp... May 9 2006, 09:07 PM
KissMe2408 Wow.
First of all, I read through this entire to... May 9 2006, 09:33 PM
SoManyTearz I dont think I was obsessive, she did alot of the ... May 9 2006, 10:11 PM
msladyliberty Before I give an opinion, I absolutely don't k... May 10 2006, 12:22 AM
SoManyTearz well if its true I was her "boyfriend on the ... May 10 2006, 06:34 AM
mipadi QUOTE(SoManyTearz @ May 10 2006, 7:34 AM)... May 10 2006, 08:13 AM
msladyliberty QUOTE(SoManyTearz @ May 10 2006, 4:34 AM)... May 10 2006, 02:31 PM
SoManyTearz I dont think your understanding this...
shes not t... May 10 2006, 05:36 PM
xbabyboo Sad story..I don`t think you did anything wron... May 10 2006, 08:54 PM
SoManyTearz Yep.
I'm pretty much done with love and relati... May 10 2006, 09:25 PM
msladyliberty oh ok then!
Forget all the mushy stuff I s... May 10 2006, 09:43 PM
SoManyTearz thanks to anyone who helped. May 11 2006, 03:46 PM
gponce10104 omg wow. im so sorry :(
there was absolutley nothi... May 12 2006, 08:21 PM
xmoon_lightx that must have been really hard for you . But at... May 14 2006, 08:33 PM
SoManyTearz thanks.
but it is kinda hard, knowing how broken u... May 14 2006, 08:55 PM
JR Typer LOL fam aint nobody wanna date andy d**k stunt dou... May 21 2006, 07:09 PM
Killa RAM'ron YOU GOTTA BE KIDDING ME?! YOU EXPECTING A CHIC... May 21 2006, 07:13 PM
This Confession don't bring back old topics. May 21 2006, 07:18 PM![]() ![]() |