How'd you find out he/she liked you?, Your bf/gf... Options

[sailormei]

So, how'd you find out? Did it get around the school? Did they tell you directly?

[Sa-Chan]

This is...er...a very hard question to answer? Me and my boyfriend knew eachother for a year before actually going out. And...I hated him. I absolutely abhorred him. In fact, I wanted him dead at times. In my mind, he was annoying, self-centered, mean, perverted, and just utterly wrong. Well, then I was shocked to find out...I was wrong entirely about him. In the months after he became a great friend, he always supported me, even when he knew what I was doing was stupid. The many times my ex-boyfriend broke my heart, he was always there to talk to me, and then...I would always get back with my ex. I still wasn't close to my current boyfriend, even though I was very open with him, because he was just easy to open up to. Here's where I found out that he liked me as more than I friend, I just didn't know he loved me at that point. My ex once again hurt me, and I was furious. I HATED all guys. I went to my current boyfriend, who was just a friend at that point, and was all like, "Ya know what, f*** guys...I'm bi, I'll just go lesbian and date a girl. I'm sick and tired of getting toyed with and hurt by guys like (insert ex-boyfriend's name here)". Well, we were only IMing at the time, and before I know it, he gets mad, and starts "..."ing like he's upset. So I ask him what's wrong, and he replies, "The girl I like...pretty much just stated I never have a chance with her." Well, stupid little me didn't realize until later that he was talking about me. So, I just said, "Oh, I'm so sorry." How stupid am I? Anyways, then he got offline, and disappears for a long time. And...that's when I realize just how much I miss him, and that maybe...just maybe I could like him...as more than a friend...and maybe I could love him. But, stupid girl that I am, I got back with my ex for the umptenth time. L****, my boyfriend now, finally got to where he talked to me again, after what felt like forever of not talking. And we grew close yet again, I still complained about my had been boyfriend (who was still my boyfriend at this time), and he just kept with it, but something I did that really surprised me, I flirted with L****. Anyways, my boyfriend and I took "seperate time" from eachother the Monday before Valentines. L**** started calling, we talked nonstop. I was his Valentine on Valentine's day. We talked for a long time, then he had to go for awhile (his friend was over), and then he called back around nine. I was home alone; until later that night. We talked, from 9p.m. to 2a.m. After we hung up, I was lovesick to be honest. I liked him, alot. I was like a lovesick puppy, but I didn't reveal that to him (now that we've been going out, he's told me that he felt the same way). Well, my ex and I officially broke up that Tuesday, and then February 18, the following Wednesday, I introduced L**** to my two bestfriends (who ironically are in a relationship with eachother). They really liked him. Then, L**** and myself found ourselves in a, "You know...if you wanted to, I'd go out with you, but you know, only if you wanted to, I mean, I'd want to to, you know?" conversation. Finally, after asking my friends for their permission, he asked me out that day. We've been going out for a little over three months, and I love him a ton. I also found out, that he's liked me a lot longer than I've liked him...

Hehehe...love is so odd...