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B-rex ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 149 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,689 ![]() |
Ok, I'm not even sure I'm supposed to be posting in this place, I dont care if you delete this topic--but I really need some answers.
Ok, first of all, since my problem is about a girl, I figured GIRLS would be most helpful, seeing as most guys are absolutely dee-dee-dee when it comes to relationships. Ok, so to the point. I met my ex girlfriend in 6th grade, she moved away, I continued living there for a few years, then I met her again in 8th grade. We started going out. I realize theres alot of people arguing that 15 year old's dont know what love is, but whatever--THAT, that was love. No f**king doubt in my mind. I fell completely for her. Absolutely and totally devoted to this one girl. She was perfect to me, abso-f**king-lutely perfect. A few months in, I thought it would make her happy to give her a ring for our 6th month anniversary. So, I got a job, babysat, mowed the lawn, in short, I broke my goddamn back and managed to get around 750 dollars. I went to a jewlerers, and got her the prettiest ring I could get her with 750 dollars, then I gave it to her. I like, kinda proposed half jokingly to her, like "Danielle, would you marry me?" But then I saw her reaction, and I was actually shocked. So we were engaged. I bought her a necklace sometime later, (which wasn't cheap by the way) Months passed by filled with so much love and happiness I probaly should have died then, cause I don't think I can experience uplifting joy like that ever again. I wrote her poems every single week. Everytime we met I kissed her on the cheek. Sex wasn't even on my mind, cuddling was enough for me. We were perfect. I loved her. She loved me. Then I found out, the day before my birthday and a few days before our one year anniversary, that she's been cheating on my, the.WHOLE.damn.time. She's had sex with two other guys, and was messing around with a few others. I won't delve into all the melodramatic weeks that followed, but to say the least, my world fell apart, cried for days on end, and so on. Now, I come here, just wanting to know, was there anything I did wrong? I mean, If I could I'd have given the world to this girl, and I tried. I didn't even look at a girl twice for nearly a year, she was my life. So...yeah, thats pretty much it. And all I want to know, if theres ANYTHING you think I could've did better, or something I did wrong. I'm just looking for answers. -Sorry for being so long...and thanks to anyone who helps. Then, I found out |
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B-rex ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 149 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,689 ![]() |
too late?
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