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Terror
post May 7 2006, 07:08 PM
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Ok, I'm not even sure I'm supposed to be posting in this place, I dont care if you delete this topic--but I really need some answers.

Ok, first of all, since my problem is about a girl, I figured GIRLS would be most helpful, seeing as most guys are absolutely dee-dee-dee when it comes to relationships.
Ok, so to the point.
I met my ex girlfriend in 6th grade, she moved away, I continued living there for a few years, then I met her again in 8th grade.
We started going out. I realize theres alot of people arguing that 15 year old's dont know what love is, but whatever--THAT, that was love. No f**king doubt in my mind.
I fell completely for her. Absolutely and totally devoted to this one girl.
She was perfect to me, abso-f**king-lutely perfect. A few months in, I thought it would make her happy to give her a ring for our 6th month anniversary.
So, I got a job, babysat, mowed the lawn, in short, I broke my goddamn back and managed to get around 750 dollars. I went to a jewlerers, and got her the prettiest ring I could get her with 750 dollars, then I gave it to her. I like, kinda proposed half jokingly to her, like "Danielle, would you marry me?"
But then I saw her reaction, and I was actually shocked.
So we were engaged.
I bought her a necklace sometime later, (which wasn't cheap by the way)
Months passed by filled with so much love and happiness I probaly should have died then, cause I don't think I can experience uplifting joy like that ever again.
I wrote her poems every single week. Everytime we met I kissed her on the cheek.

Sex wasn't even on my mind, cuddling was enough for me.
We were perfect.
I loved her.
She loved me.
Then I found out, the day before my birthday and a few days before our one year anniversary, that she's been cheating on my, the.WHOLE.damn.time.
She's had sex with two other guys, and was messing around with a few others.
I won't delve into all the melodramatic weeks that followed, but to say the least, my world fell apart, cried for days on end, and so on.
Now, I come here, just wanting to know, was there anything I did wrong?
I mean, If I could I'd have given the world to this girl, and I tried.
I didn't even look at a girl twice for nearly a year, she was my life.

So...yeah, thats pretty much it.
And all I want to know, if theres ANYTHING you think I could've did better, or something I did wrong.
I'm just looking for answers.

-Sorry for being so long...and thanks to anyone who helps.

Then, I found out
 
 
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Terror
post May 7 2006, 07:18 PM
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Its just so unbelieveable, I mean, do you think I was a good boyfriend?
 
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post May 7 2006, 07:20 PM
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QUOTE(SoManyTearz @ May 7 2006, 8:18 PM) *
Its just so unbelieveable, I mean, do you think I was a good boyfriend?


100% i think you're a good boyfriend, you really didn't do anything wrong.
 

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SoManyTearz   looking for an answer..   May 7 2006, 07:08 PM
tainted_angel   You did nothing wrong. It's her fault..for tak...   May 7 2006, 07:13 PM
Babii_BoA   wow that must be really hurtful, from what i read,...   May 7 2006, 07:16 PM
SoManyTearz   Its just so unbelieveable, I mean, do you think I ...   May 7 2006, 07:18 PM
Babii_BoA   QUOTE(SoManyTearz @ May 7 2006, 8:18 PM) ...   May 7 2006, 07:20 PM
Chii   Judging by what you said, it seemed like you were ...   May 7 2006, 08:06 PM
SoManyTearz   QUOTE(Chii @ May 7 2006, 8:06 PM) Judging...   May 7 2006, 09:33 PM
This Confession   QUOTE(SoManyTearz @ May 7 2006, 10:33 PM)...   May 7 2006, 09:40 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(Chii @ May 7 2006, 9:06 PM) I think...   May 8 2006, 10:58 AM
x3Death.By.Knife.   Wow, I can definately tell you that you did NOTHIN...   May 7 2006, 08:26 PM
This Confession   QUOTE(x3Death.By.Knife. @ May 7 2006, 9:2...   May 7 2006, 09:32 PM
lalalaLANUH   Awww. Poor child. While I feel sad for you, I ...   May 7 2006, 08:34 PM
_sarcastic_   you sound like a really great bf to me from what i...   May 7 2006, 09:09 PM
SoManyTearz   QUOTE(lalalaLANUH @ May 7 2006, 8:34 PM) ...   May 7 2006, 09:43 PM
This Confession   QUOTE(SoManyTearz @ May 7 2006, 10:43 PM)...   May 7 2006, 09:44 PM
SoManyTearz   well.. I DO like other people, but I have no confi...   May 7 2006, 09:58 PM
This Confession   you should never think down about yourself like th...   May 7 2006, 10:07 PM
SoManyTearz   too late?   May 7 2006, 10:11 PM
yanners   Well, if she cheated on you, don't take her ba...   May 8 2006, 04:00 AM
Your pain is not love   I feel so sorry for you. I kind of want to cry rea...   May 8 2006, 07:44 AM
xCrys   ^ Took the words right out of my mouth... You wer...   May 8 2006, 09:18 AM
xmy_sweet_revengex   Hey, as much as i can see there you did nothing wr...   May 8 2006, 10:30 AM
SoManyTearz   thanks guys...but come on, cheating on me 4+ times...   May 8 2006, 05:52 PM
Uronacid   im going to tell you what i told my friend anthony...   May 8 2006, 10:43 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   dude you seemed like the perfect boyfriend any gur...   May 8 2006, 11:05 PM
x___F0RG0TTEN   aww that's so sadd *tear* haha kk sorry i get ...   May 8 2006, 11:23 PM
YourPrettyFaceIsGoingToHELL   You did nothing wrong. If anything, you were bein...   May 9 2006, 05:29 AM
Uronacid   also, she could have just been an abusive bitch......   May 9 2006, 12:52 PM
chasingvictory   oh man, I'm sorry dude. I feel your pain. You ...   May 9 2006, 01:45 PM
nikkkkki   maybe there was too much..clinginess? sometimes a ...   May 9 2006, 05:34 PM
SoManyTearz   thanks to everyone, really. and just so you know.....   May 9 2006, 06:07 PM
Your pain is not love   Don't take her back. I want to break her face.   May 9 2006, 06:24 PM
SoManyTearz   im really trying not to. but her acting like this,...   May 9 2006, 06:43 PM
priyas   ^^Maybe she felt you were too possesive. Anyways,...   May 9 2006, 08:33 PM
SoManyTearz   "Maybe she had sex just cuz she wanted to exp...   May 9 2006, 09:07 PM
KissMe2408   Wow. First of all, I read through this entire to...   May 9 2006, 09:33 PM
SoManyTearz   I dont think I was obsessive, she did alot of the ...   May 9 2006, 10:11 PM
msladyliberty   Before I give an opinion, I absolutely don't k...   May 10 2006, 12:22 AM
SoManyTearz   well if its true I was her "boyfriend on the ...   May 10 2006, 06:34 AM
mipadi   QUOTE(SoManyTearz @ May 10 2006, 7:34 AM)...   May 10 2006, 08:13 AM
msladyliberty   QUOTE(SoManyTearz @ May 10 2006, 4:34 AM)...   May 10 2006, 02:31 PM
SoManyTearz   I dont think your understanding this... shes not t...   May 10 2006, 05:36 PM
xbabyboo   Sad story..I don`t think you did anything wron...   May 10 2006, 08:54 PM
SoManyTearz   Yep. I'm pretty much done with love and relati...   May 10 2006, 09:25 PM
msladyliberty   oh ok then! Forget all the mushy stuff I s...   May 10 2006, 09:43 PM
SoManyTearz   thanks to anyone who helped.   May 11 2006, 03:46 PM
gponce10104   omg wow. im so sorry :( there was absolutley nothi...   May 12 2006, 08:21 PM
xmoon_lightx   that must have been really hard for you . But at...   May 14 2006, 08:33 PM
SoManyTearz   thanks. but it is kinda hard, knowing how broken u...   May 14 2006, 08:55 PM
JR Typer   LOL fam aint nobody wanna date andy d**k stunt dou...   May 21 2006, 07:09 PM
Killa RAM'ron   YOU GOTTA BE KIDDING ME?! YOU EXPECTING A CHIC...   May 21 2006, 07:13 PM
This Confession   don't bring back old topics.   May 21 2006, 07:18 PM


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