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priyas
post Apr 20 2006, 11:38 PM
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My ex and I are good friends. Is anyone else friends with theirs?

"I think we should just be friends."--Thats how we broke up. Some people I know despise their ex so I was just wondering.

 
 
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post May 5 2006, 11:19 AM
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GF: Sierra
I Was: 15 - 16
Lasted: 1 1/2 years
How we broke up: She changed after she switched schools she strated doing drugs and sh*t... i couldnt trust her and the realationship became abusive... eventually, even tho i loved her, i called her and told her i didn't want to be with her anymore.. at first she couldnt believe it... she thought i would be there forever, but i proved her wrong. i remember her saying something to the effect of, "do you think you can handle it?". i sat there, and began to realize that i wouldnt be able to handle it if i continued to talk to her.... i decided to never talk to her again, for fear that i would fall in love with her again and and continue to live in a relationshp full of one sided love and pain... so i picked up the phone with tears in my eyes and screamed, "f**k YOU f**k YOU f**k YOU f**k YOU!!!!!! I NEVER f**king WANT OT TALK TO YOU AGAIN!!!!!!!!"..... she called me once after wards, and i asked why she was calling... i never gave her a chance to apologize or talkk about the whole situation that we had gone through... instead, i only told her,"you know, i told you to never talk to me again... f**k you *click*"
Are we still friends?: f**k no....

GF: Grace
I Was: 16 - 17
Lasted: 3 Months
How we broke up: Graced loved me, i didn't love her... i couldnt take it any more. so i broke up with her.... i told her i wanted to be friends and i felt horrible becuase she took it so hard.
Are we still friends?: Yeah, me and grace are buddies!!!! we hang out like all the time!!! we help eachother with the relationships we are in, and we have alot of fun. i even spend the night at her house like 3 - 4 days a week, but im not just friends with her... i love her family, her bro anthony... we have been buddies forever... her sister susan, loves to draw and create pictures.. man we draw pictues all the time together... and her mom is so friggin awsome... i look up to her mother because shes so wise.

GF: Rebbecca
I Was: 17 - 18
Lasted: 9 - 11 months
How we broke up: I had so many emotional issues after sierra and my parents spilting up... it was just to difficult for her to deal with me... we would consistantly fight about everything... i broke up with her, then we went back out... not more than 3 weeks later she broke up with me... it was mutual, but it was mostly her...
Are we still friends: Sort of... its awkward for me to hang out with rebecca... i think we both feel like we failed eachother, but now we have changed so much that the atraction we had is dead.... i really dont like her personal standards and morals so i wouldnt hang out with her anyways... even if i didn't know her like that..

GF: Hollyann
I Was: 19 ------>
Lasted: [Infinite] or at least for now :]
How we met: On myspace, it was completely random, i dont know why i liked her... but i just did... and now i love her... shes the cherry on my icecream sundae.... i can tell her anything, and she will try her best to understand...
Are we friends: I want to develope our friendship more, i believe there is nothing more important in a relatioship than developing a friends type aspect before you get to serious. I will always wish to be a better friend to her, so we can have a better relationship
 

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priyas   friends with your ex?   Apr 20 2006, 11:38 PM
aznxdreamer   we said we would be friends but now since we dont ...   Apr 20 2006, 11:52 PM
SimplicityGirl   Well good for you if you could be friends with you...   Apr 21 2006, 12:29 AM
silver rain   Eh, I think he wanted to be friends, but he ignore...   Apr 21 2006, 10:43 AM
My Cinderella.   Nah, when I say "we should still be friends...   Apr 21 2006, 10:46 AM
xXxCoraHeartsYou   My ex & I are like best friends but sometimes ...   Apr 21 2006, 01:09 PM
ja-hou   ive tried being friends with my exes but it never ...   Apr 21 2006, 01:43 PM
ashopely   No wayy. Heh.   Apr 22 2006, 01:03 PM
ms. independent   depends. most of the guys I've broken up with ...   Apr 22 2006, 01:06 PM
visualfusion   it sometimes works... but there's always the a...   Apr 22 2006, 01:42 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   It depends on the relationship I had with them. Th...   Apr 22 2006, 03:39 PM
Smoogrish   I've never had an ex, but most of my friends a...   Apr 22 2006, 04:53 PM
magicfann   QUOTE(Smoogrish @ Apr 22 2006, 5:53 PM) I...   May 5 2006, 04:17 PM
priyas   my other ex and d0nt like each other at all. but w...   Apr 22 2006, 04:54 PM
xcaitlinx   im not friends with any of my exes...i guess all o...   Apr 22 2006, 06:13 PM
_sarcastic_   it's not that i hate him or anything, it's...   Apr 22 2006, 06:41 PM
fathomlessdame   i dont have any exes to speak of... but with every...   Apr 22 2006, 06:50 PM
Jorge   We say we will, but we don't.   Apr 22 2006, 08:32 PM
pinayprincess   yes & no... i have two exes and one of them [b...   Apr 22 2006, 08:52 PM
Angelina Taylor   There's a great quote that says.. "If you...   Apr 22 2006, 08:57 PM
Rachel is love   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Apr 22 2006, 6:57...   Apr 23 2006, 04:40 PM
AzNxBaBi   I'm still good friends with my exs but we don...   Apr 23 2006, 10:38 AM
nothing_plus_this   i've attempted to be friends with mine. but......   Apr 23 2006, 10:48 AM
jooleeah   Yes. But we're not ever going to be as close a...   Apr 23 2006, 03:51 PM
helllla jankyyyy   We're best friends now just like how we used t...   Apr 23 2006, 04:42 PM
MzShortieAlli   I'm still friends with my recent ex and we...   Apr 23 2006, 06:15 PM
ashopely   Update? We're friends, so yeah.   Apr 23 2006, 06:26 PM
lil_nat_cat   He just said he wanted to break up and went silent...   Apr 25 2006, 09:08 AM
funkayyfreshhh   yes. very [: one of my ex`s though ... always ...   Apr 25 2006, 07:20 PM
shannonx1   not really... my first ex, not at all. he said we ...   Apr 27 2006, 09:45 PM
typh-a-knee   A couple. Not my recent ones though. 1- because w...   Apr 27 2006, 09:46 PM
Rachel is love   ^Hey, I basically am having the same problems...   Apr 27 2006, 11:05 PM
priyas   typh-a-knee and Rachel is love. Hope you both wor...   Apr 27 2006, 11:11 PM
typh-a-knee   Eh. I highly doubt it. 3 months after we broke up...   Apr 27 2006, 11:16 PM
priyas   ^^O. Thats a serious ouch. I hate cheaters. All t...   Apr 27 2006, 11:25 PM
xCrys   I'm friends with mine, he figured he felt more...   Apr 28 2006, 02:48 AM
x__Elle.   I've only had one boyfriend thus far, and I...   Apr 28 2006, 08:46 AM
Rachel is love   We are not on speaking terms now. He has changed a...   Apr 29 2006, 10:16 PM
Trumpetman4eva   my ex is my best friend   Apr 29 2006, 10:20 PM
This Confession   yea im still friends with them i just don't ta...   Apr 29 2006, 11:19 PM
TwistMe   Yup, I try really hard to keep my ex's as frie...   Apr 29 2006, 11:26 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   I agree with Rachel, yet again. We were on a brea...   Apr 30 2006, 10:00 AM
Rachel is love   QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Apr 30 2006, 8...   May 4 2006, 09:59 PM
YourPrettyFaceIsGoingToHELL   I'm friends with some of my ex's. The othe...   Apr 30 2006, 10:04 AM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   Update. Nope. He found out about the new boyface,...   May 4 2006, 09:18 PM
ikn0wurm0m   Im friends with only one. the first love all the r...   May 4 2006, 09:27 PM
Chii   I'm only slightly friends with one of my ex...   May 4 2006, 11:15 PM
I'm Alex... rawr!   QUOTE(priyas @ Apr 20 2006, 9:38 PM) My ...   May 5 2006, 02:23 AM
agiri   No, for the first, and yes for the second. But lik...   May 5 2006, 02:39 AM
tainted_angel   I'm friends with all of my exes (there aren...   May 5 2006, 03:41 AM
Uronacid   GF: Sierra I Was: 15 - 16 Lasted: 1 1/2 years How ...   May 5 2006, 11:19 AM
Gypsy Eyes   I'm only friends with one of my ex's, the ...   May 5 2006, 06:44 PM
Stately Lover   I've never said "Let's just be friend...   May 6 2006, 03:15 AM
priyas   whats cold turkey?   May 7 2006, 08:08 PM
Rachel is love   ^Stop all contact and whatnot with them immediatle...   May 7 2006, 08:23 PM
kill.t3h.r0cK   Yes, I am. Ethan's an amazing kid and we'r...   May 8 2006, 05:40 PM
xbabyboo   Umm..friends..but not best.   May 10 2006, 09:11 PM
msladyliberty   I'm friends with my ex's from middle schoo...   May 10 2006, 10:59 PM
oooitzsharon   i'm definitely not friends w/ the last ex, but...   May 12 2006, 11:27 AM
lilxl0ser   they're not technically my ex, but they're...   May 12 2006, 11:40 AM
creamyxlicious   Eh, not really.. It's usually ackward afterwa...   May 12 2006, 01:16 PM
lovapalooza   in the case of my recent ex, yes we are friends. b...   May 12 2006, 11:46 PM
teenprincess   Yea I'm like best friends with my ex. We hang ...   May 12 2006, 11:55 PM
Rachel is love   ^Wow, basically I am in the same boat, except we a...   May 13 2006, 01:57 PM


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