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*xcaitlinx*
post Mar 6 2006, 04:32 PM
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i know that most, if not all guys watch porn and masturbate...but would you get mad if you found out that your boyfriend watches porn? i know that mine does and i'm not sure if he watches it a lot but i dont know how to react. the thought of him looking at other girls naked bothers me. should i be mad and talk to him about it? or should i forget about it because most guys watch it anyway?
 
 
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SarahxJoy
post May 3 2006, 02:55 AM
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What the fack.
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Interesting topic.


My boyfriend watches porn and he does so regularly, I know. But then again, so do I but not as much as him. laugh.gif It's kind of an inside joke between us, when we do watch porn and when we don't.


It doesn't bother me at all. I know he loves me and in my opinion, telling your boyfriend that he can't watch porn for self-pleasure, is kind of wrong. It's like them saying you can't wear a certain shirt 'cause it's low-cut (but cute!). You like it and you enjoy wearing it but they won't let you decide on your own?

I know that sometimes when guys have erections for a long while, it starts to hurt and sometimes they get horny for no reason at all, so it's not always their fault. Let 'em take care of it and that's that.

Since the majority of you probably think the people in the porn films are cheap, slutty, blah, blah, blah..why even compare yourself to them? ie: I'm sure that when you watch a movie with a hot actor in it, you find them attractive in some way, but you don't compare them to your significant other. Right?

And as for sex being a spiritual and meaningful thing between a married couple, yes that's true. But apparently the people in that little porn flick your boyfriend may be watching don't think so. But then again, it's not like he's going here and there, getting it on with this girl and that. I think that's where the real would be, if that were to be happening.

My bottom line, guys are guys and as long as it's not hurting your relationship, leave it be. And if you're insecure about your body, because you compare it to those bimbos, then I think you and your significant other should just completely eliminate any mention of porn in your relationship. Would that make you feel better?


Blar. That's my take on it. mellow.gif
 

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xcaitlinx   boyfriend watches porn   Mar 6 2006, 04:32 PM
mipadi   Do you let him look at you naked?   Mar 6 2006, 04:39 PM
ranniel   QUOTE(mipadi @ Mar 6 2006, 4:39 PM) Do yo...   Mar 6 2006, 09:35 PM
Rachel is love   QUOTE(ranniel @ Mar 6 2006, 7:35 PM) umm ...   Mar 7 2006, 07:42 PM
xcaitlinx   QUOTE(ranniel @ Mar 6 2006, 9:35 PM) umm ...   Mar 8 2006, 04:20 PM
xcaitlinx   ^ hah..no he hasn't seen me completely uncloth...   Mar 6 2006, 04:50 PM
Zatanna   One of my exes used to watch porn quite often. It...   Mar 6 2006, 05:01 PM
pinayprincess   i know he does, but i honestly could careless; hes...   Mar 6 2006, 05:08 PM
shaken_serenityx3   I know some of my ex's have. I don't have ...   Mar 6 2006, 08:19 PM
BitterSweetness   my boyfriend doesn't. :] but i think if you f...   Mar 6 2006, 08:24 PM
APPLEjuicex   well, i dont have a boyfriend. and i dont have ex...   Mar 6 2006, 09:07 PM
tic tac.   QUOTE(APPLEjuicex @ Mar 6 2006, 6:07 PM) ...   Mar 6 2006, 09:58 PM
foreign k   QUOTE(APPLEjuicex @ Mar 6 2006, 9:07 PM) ...   Mar 8 2006, 12:02 AM
RAWRstephishere   QUOTE(APPLEjuicex @ Mar 6 2006, 09:07 PM)...   Sep 22 2007, 10:36 PM
iNyCxShoRT   I'm not sure if my boyfriend does, but I don...   Mar 6 2006, 09:47 PM
Sparkle09   QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Mar 6 2006, 11:47 PM) ...   Apr 23 2006, 01:07 PM
Paradox of Life   If my boyfriend watched porn, I would be really up...   Mar 7 2006, 06:03 PM
xCrys   QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Mar 7 2006, 6:03 ...   Mar 14 2006, 12:10 AM
IGetSex   QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Mar 7 2006, 06:03...   Dec 21 2007, 01:48 AM
islandkiss   it would bother me. even if I won't admit it, ...   Mar 7 2006, 08:03 PM
x Ragazza   Yeah, my boyfriend does. I'm not sure how ofte...   Mar 7 2006, 08:49 PM
Chii   QUOTE(tic tac. @ Mar 6 2006, 9:58 PM) Sam...   Mar 8 2006, 12:36 AM
Dragonfly_babe   I think the majority of guys do. It's there bu...   Mar 8 2006, 03:24 PM
lil_nat_cat   My ex hardly watches it. But I knew that he watch...   Mar 8 2006, 06:34 PM
silver rain   Eh, I think my boyfriend used to, but I don't ...   Mar 8 2006, 11:00 PM
dreamerOi   Eh.. well. Current boyfriend used to watch it but...   Mar 11 2006, 06:12 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK   QUOTE(dreamerOi @ Mar 11 2006, 6:12 PM) E...   Mar 12 2006, 12:43 AM
aznxdreamer   yeah. he does. he tells me, but i dont have a prob...   Mar 11 2006, 07:10 PM
Preeti   well, I think you should object. It's the way ...   Mar 14 2006, 07:42 AM
FATALxKiSSES   I know my ex's did. I don't see the big pr...   Mar 14 2006, 10:40 AM
c0cONuTTeR   I wouldn't really care. It's honestly no b...   Mar 14 2006, 10:47 AM
aicilah999   haha. i dont have a boyfriend. and i dont have a...   Mar 25 2006, 10:21 AM
AngelicEyz00   It's alright I guess, just as long as he doesn...   Mar 25 2006, 02:53 PM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   Yes he dose .. and i think its funny/gross at the ...   Mar 25 2006, 03:05 PM
ecargnmyst   i dont have a bf but i know alot of my guy friends...   Mar 25 2006, 03:10 PM
Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg   I didn't vote, since none of them apply to me,...   Apr 2 2006, 01:18 PM
mickybeans   ^ I agree. I have a boyfriend and he occasionally ...   Apr 11 2006, 07:45 PM
oOKittyKatOo   QUOTE(mickybeans @ Apr 11 2006, 8:45 PM) ...   Apr 23 2006, 01:05 PM
swtcherriipie   Me and my boyfriend have really yummie sex , so he...   Apr 12 2006, 04:21 PM
fathomlessdame   i'd beat the shit out of kyle if he ever looke...   Apr 12 2006, 04:25 PM
swtcherriipie   QUOTE(fathomlessdame @ Apr 12 2006, 5:25 ...   Apr 12 2006, 04:28 PM
fathomlessdame   from what ive seen of what my brother looks at.......   Apr 12 2006, 04:54 PM
Kounouri   My ex used to watch it. When I first found out I g...   Apr 12 2006, 05:19 PM
imnoxonesmemory   i knew that my boyfriend watches porn even before ...   Apr 14 2006, 05:55 AM
Smoogrish   You definitely need to talk with him about porn. I...   Apr 14 2006, 09:12 PM
xcaitlinx   well here's an update on this whole situation....   Apr 14 2006, 11:03 PM
Jenny Tran   weeeeell my ex watches it   Apr 16 2006, 07:48 PM
TimothyMcmillon   honestly they proly jerkoff while watchin it,i kno...   Apr 18 2006, 04:58 AM
c0cONuTTeR   I know, and it doesn't really matter to me, mo...   Apr 18 2006, 09:39 AM
Superboi   hi everyone I'm new here. I am a guy and i wa...   Apr 23 2006, 02:07 PM
ALLFourOne   Hello. I'm new here and I would really appreci...   Apr 30 2006, 04:40 PM
This Confession   well my bf is a complete dingbat and his sister pu...   May 3 2006, 01:44 AM
viola_winnie   i dont hope my ex did this.....   May 3 2006, 01:53 AM
starlette   Man I cant even get my boyfriend to watch it with ...   May 3 2006, 02:41 AM
tainted_angel   Interesting topic. My boyfriend watches porn and...   May 3 2006, 02:55 AM
Superboi   porn bad.   May 3 2006, 04:40 PM
suddenly she   QUOTE(Superboi @ May 3 2006, 4:40 PM) por...   Jul 13 2006, 07:27 PM
gponce10104   lots of boys do that...if i was you though id prol...   May 3 2006, 06:34 PM
KissMe2408   Personally, I hate when guys watch porn. It gets t...   May 4 2006, 12:42 AM
emazing   Well, hopefully not. He does look at like asian g...   May 5 2006, 01:06 PM
mezeni   its a habit that is hard for a guy to break(more l...   May 5 2006, 10:09 PM
mseryel2   itd bother me a bit if i did have a boyfriend... ...   May 7 2006, 12:37 AM
autodidact.   Pornography doesn't bother me one bit. I don...   May 7 2006, 03:03 AM
xbabyboo   I`m single..but I don`t think none of my e...   Jul 6 2006, 06:43 PM
DizzyDucky09   My bf has tons of porn....i think his friends burn...   Jul 6 2006, 09:59 PM
cloudy sunshineee   My boyfriend doesn't have to watch porn ;) Ha...   Jul 7 2006, 12:45 PM
STFULiNDA   i didnt know my ex watched porn until he was telli...   Jul 7 2006, 03:21 PM
Becca Pearl   nope he doesn't need to ... hes got me (he ...   Jul 7 2006, 04:26 PM
Brittany Rachelle   I'm pretty sure my boyfriend does, not often, ...   Jul 8 2006, 09:55 PM
Pineapplepower   I don't know if he watches it or not. I like t...   Jul 13 2006, 04:29 PM
wildncrazyath3rt   no he doesnt need too .. lol .. i mean come on.. ...   Jul 14 2006, 02:22 PM
twixvix   I discovered a while ago that my boyfriend regular...   Sep 17 2007, 08:46 AM
Sandraaa   I am VERY certain that my 'boyfriend' watc...   Sep 17 2007, 11:43 AM
ambernoelnichols   porn = nastiness   Sep 17 2007, 01:51 PM
x3viet-behbii   well; he watches it reguarly he t0ld meeh. well i...   Sep 22 2007, 07:46 PM
MissFits   My fiance watches porn. It doesn't bother me....   Sep 22 2007, 08:28 PM
lilsnoopy   guys have no self control If I was having sex wit...   Sep 23 2007, 06:31 PM
ignorance-is-bliss   i've honestly never asked him. because it does...   Sep 23 2007, 06:35 PM
kayleighSTFU   i can't vote there is no option that says... ...   Oct 2 2007, 02:54 AM
MissHygienic   QUOTE(kayleighSTFU @ Oct 2 2007, 02:54 AM...   Dec 20 2007, 06:34 AM
stacygreen   I'm completely against pornography. Its not a ...   Dec 21 2007, 02:31 AM
Cowboy   QUOTE(stacygreen @ Dec 21 2007, 12:31 AM)...   Dec 21 2007, 02:58 AM
stacygreen   QUOTE(Cowboy @ Dec 20 2007, 11:58 PM) You...   Dec 22 2007, 12:35 AM
Cowboy   QUOTE(stacygreen @ Dec 21 2007, 10:35 PM)...   Dec 22 2007, 01:18 AM
Insurmountable   Honestly I never really cared about it Although I...   Oct 26 2007, 01:06 AM
jeanna   my boyfriend at the time even sent me a link to a ...   Oct 26 2007, 01:21 AM
fathomlessdame   mine used to...i'm pretty sure he doesnt anymo...   Dec 20 2007, 01:51 AM
S-Majere   Nope, though I wouldn't mind if he did s'l...   Dec 20 2007, 06:27 AM
S-Majere   Cowboy, there's no need for any of that.   Dec 21 2007, 07:57 PM
stacygreen   Grow up and go suck on a dick.   Dec 22 2007, 02:51 AM
S-Majere   Oi, the both of you just got yourselves a verbal w...   Dec 22 2007, 03:34 AM
Cowboy   Thank you, S-Majere. I have been trying to be ci...   Dec 22 2007, 03:39 AM
ilauqh   my boyfriend has never told me he watches it but i...   Dec 22 2007, 03:40 PM
S-Majere   That's a little judgemental - not all guys are...   Dec 24 2007, 08:44 PM
surlee   i dont think theres anything wrong with it ....mos...   Dec 26 2007, 04:47 PM
OHSHIRAIDER   ITS PERFECTLY FINE BECAUSE IM A RAIDER   Dec 26 2007, 10:55 PM
LizzieDeeCeex3   My boyfriend watches porn. He watches it less than...   Dec 29 2007, 01:48 PM
fosheezy   i didn't know my ex watched porn til way after...   Dec 31 2007, 08:00 AM
B-NOX   i never watched a porn movie   Jan 15 2008, 04:38 PM
miyashu   i voted "no - he doesn't need to ;]...   Jan 17 2008, 01:43 PM
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