Friend Troubles, am i the only one out there with very few friends/major friend problem Options

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It's not like I'm this huge loser/ anti-socal who just refuses to talk to people. I just went to a really, really small school. It used to be just me, my best friend, 2 of our guy friends, and a few people who came an went. We were very happy friends. We go to a pretty big highschool.. so we each have friends that we talk to during class and stuff. But, these last 2 weeks, my "best friend" has been becoming more distant. Then, out of really no where, she starts to avoid me and hang out with other people!! #1 - she's my freakin best friend!! what in the world is she thinking!! and #2.. why? I don't know how to talk to her. Any ideas? I know I'm a good friend.. might i just be boring her?

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i'm just like her.

why?

i'm sick of my old friends that i hanged out in the past. i hated them for being stupid and stupider in highschool.

But there's one friend that i kept, no matter what. he's worth it.
although i dont talked to him that much, we still do.


i'm with my veryveryveryyy old friends that i hardly communicate or we just never talked before. fortunately, i made a right decision. they treated me right. they made me feel alot better and more comfortable. i'm actually grateful for them, i really do. all the shitty ex-friends are in my trash dump. they treated me alot worse. i eliminate ALL my sh*t-talker friends. they are not worth it ... and i almost did a pretty good job ignoring them.

but i'm still struggling when they're in my way. i cannot believe they dont f**king get the hints that i'd given to them.




why cant you do that? i'm a freshmen and trying to make my high school years the best i can. find the ones that will suit you best. i made a couple of new friends, they're really good friends.


let me teach you how to pick a right friend. i'd gone through all the issues so you dont have to follow the same path as i do.

pick a right friends that you know for sure, dont pick friends that you *think* is a good friend.


no matter how great is friendship in the beginning, they wil stab you in the back.

therefore, pick the ones you know for sure. how? look at their attitude. look how they move their eyes, look how at they treated everyone especially their old friends.



you might be like .. " wtf, observe their eye moments?!"

but really, they mean alot and will tell you so much more about this person.