Isn't it hard to give space? Options

[Spec_R]

When you are really in love, isn't it hard to give your partner space? Like you want to be with them everyday. You want to talk to them even though you have nothing to talk about on the phone. You wonder what that person is doing currently at this moment?

when that other person told you to give that person spaces...how would you be able to do that? I mean yeah it's easy like okay I'll do my own thing but even though when you are doing your own things, u still think of them. This may sound weird but I love my GF tooo much and I want to lower it because I think it's unfair cuz i love her crazily and she's doing ok with me. How do I lower my love for her or maybe even stop? But at the same time I dont' want to break up with her... do I make sense?

[misfit]

I find it really hard also, to give my boyfriend space.I wonder every day what he is doing right at this minute.I feel like if he broke up with me, i'd feel like I was nothing, that I had no one, that I couldn't be without him..
When he is around me he's really clingy but probably not as bad as me..
You obviously really love her a lot,as hard as it is,you have to give her some space,because if you don't she's going to feel sufficated and it will push her away and you might end up loosing her..Everyone wants to be able to have their own personal space and you have to except that she needs hers too,I know it's hard,but try give her some space,go doing something with your friends,to take your mind off it all,not her ingeneral,but the fact that you want to be with her all the time...Being with someone 24/7 can get a bit hectic...You both have your own seperate lives and want to spend it together,just make sure it's not way too often and your not over crowding her.
I mean in relationships I guess you shouldn't need space,but really your not one person,your two people,in love.That have their own seperate lives apart fom being together,who have thier own goals and everything,there's things everyone wants to do by themselves or with friends,it's part of life,as much as you'd like to be,you can't be attached to her 24/7.

Also,don't show her way too much affection,because it can get annoyin and don't sufficate her,show her you love her and don't show her that you need her,because then,she may feel like she can treat you like crap..I don't know if you see what I mean but yeah..And also because it can be a bit daunting someone obsessing over you..
You can't just tell your self to stop loving someone,it's what your heart feels.Why would you want to stop loving her anyway?
Maybe you feel that you have the need to be with her,do you actually want to,or do you just have this need?I really do love my boyfriend and I want to be with him,but it worries me that if we broke up,i'd feel so lost..And I don't want to be this attached,because i'd be the biggest wreck if it happened..So I have to withdraw myself from him a bit..

So if you want things to work out,just take things slower and do things you want to do,let her have some space and see eachother still,but not as much..you can't stop loving someone,tellinh yourself isn't gonna change how you feel in your heart.

Sorry it's long,just giving my opinions and advice :)