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 Apr 27 2006, 09:43 PM
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 iHumpalot.  Group: Member Posts: 130 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,367  |
So there's this guy. And he likes me. And I like him too. It's been this way since August. We do stuff together. We kiss. He's here almost all the time. But everytime someone brings up me and him actually dating, he says he isn't ready for it. Do I wait around and see what happens orrrrrr, so I move on and cut him off?
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Apr 28 2006, 01:05 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
hm, tough one.
Well a 9-10 month wait is very admirable. However, if he's not ready after that, I don't know when he actually is going to be. It would probably be better for you to move onto someone else. It's not fair to have him keep you on a long leash. you know. I would normally say just chill, be friends and see what happens. However, it's been a long time, and I think you have done that already and you have seen the outcome. It might be time to move onto a better guy who is ready for a relationship and who is more mature. Of course you don't want to lose this guy as a friend or anything, but since you two aren't "dating", i'm sure it's not a problem for you to start seeing someone else. Talk to him about this first, and see what he thinks. It kinda sounds like you guys are already in a relationship if you have to "cut it off", you know. |
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typh-a-knee So freakin lost Apr 27 2006, 09:43 PM
I own yourr face. One word: talk Apr 27 2006, 09:52 PM shannonx1 yeah, talk. and if he still says he isnt ready, as... Apr 27 2006, 09:55 PM
typh-a-knee QUOTE(shannonx1 @ Apr 27 2006, 10:55 PM) ... Apr 27 2006, 09:56 PM Rachel is love Well don't let it. Don't put yourself in a... Apr 27 2006, 11:03 PM LadyXTor If he's not ready for a relationship, don... Apr 27 2006, 11:59 PM priyas So, he can kiss you and not be w/ you? That does n... Apr 27 2006, 11:04 PM typh-a-knee I know I should wait.
But this is the thing, I... Apr 28 2006, 12:04 AM LadyXTor Is he worth it? Apr 28 2006, 12:32 AM ryuusei i think you just should give up. his intentions ar... Apr 28 2006, 12:58 AM kswiss chicka if hes been holding you off that long>then maby... Apr 28 2006, 04:09 PM Paradox of Life ^ I don't agree with that. Just because someon... Apr 28 2006, 04:11 PM |
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