"baby daddy drama" Options

[grneydbmbshell]

So heres the deal. My boyfriend (of 2 years) and I broke up monday night. Well he and I have a child together, she is three almost four months old. He came over yesterday to spend sometime with Alexia (the baby) and before he left he decided to tell me that he was starting to talk to some other girl. ALREADY. I think thats a little ridiculous. Had it of been me saying that ive started to see another guy, he would have wanted to know everything about him; name, age, school..etc. but when I asked what her name was, he wouldnt give me an answer. I dont know what to say to him, or how to put my emotions into words. I really hate this because I love this boy. We used to talk about getting married, and me moving in with him and us having a life together one day, then BOOM we have this horrible "taking a break" break up. You see, he called it "taking a break", but i think he really wants it to be over, ESPECIALLY after hes already talking to someone? Its been really hard for me the past few days, and I just want to tell him how I feel without getting into an arguement, but i think thats all it would cause. If this new female and him start dating, im never going to take him back, i will find me someone worth my time, and my childs time. Its amazing how you can see peoples true colors after a break up. Love is blind, i guess.

Thanks for listening.

[GREASEbaby]

Sweetie, just hold on in there. Let yourself mope for no more then two weeks, but then get into the game. You don't want to waste your time fretting over the person who dumped you and your daughter. Be strong; do look for other strong men (not boys) who can really take care of you and your baby. Getting into the game doesn't mean going to clubs. Take Alexia out to the park, and maybe you can find a handsome young man playing frisbee with his dog. Find yourself a man, and be strong. You're in my prayers tonight.