Isn't it hard to give space? Options

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When you are really in love, isn't it hard to give your partner space? Like you want to be with them everyday. You want to talk to them even though you have nothing to talk about on the phone. You wonder what that person is doing currently at this moment?

when that other person told you to give that person spaces...how would you be able to do that? I mean yeah it's easy like okay I'll do my own thing but even though when you are doing your own things, u still think of them. This may sound weird but I love my GF tooo much and I want to lower it because I think it's unfair cuz i love her crazily and she's doing ok with me. How do I lower my love for her or maybe even stop? But at the same time I dont' want to break up with her... do I make sense?

[*This Confession*]

you actually make perfect sense
you remind me a lot of my boyfriend
i never told him to give me space.
but he just felt like he does so much for me
and i dont do as much, i have a horrible
deep emotional problem...
But really in the end if you back up and not
do the things you want to do
then your not being yourself
and if your not yourself then
you can't love someone......
because to love someone
so much you have to be yourself
and they have to be themself for you to love them as well.

Really to tell you the truth
you do what you think is right.
And don't leave anything from your gf.
the more important thing in relationships is trust
and communication
so don't leave her out in your thoughts


good luck.