she's taking my boyfriend away, help me ): |
 Apr 25 2006, 08:10 PM
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my friend won't leave me and my boyfriend alone. we've never even had one lunch together without her around. school is the only place we can hang out now 'cause I can't get out of the house anymore and she's driving me off a cliff with her clingyness! I swear, she's like a dog. she treats him like her slaave. it's totally ticking me off. I understand they're good friends but they spend more time together than we do. the reason I don't wanna say anything to her is because she's one of those people who find a way to turn something completely around and make you feel like an idiot. I HAATE that ]: all I want is me and my boyfriend to be alone for once, without her butting in at any time. I was so upset that I cried, I'm amazed at how jealoous and overprotective I'm being towards him 'cause I've never done anything like that. please give me some advice.
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Apr 25 2006, 10:33 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
Well, if you keep trying to push her away, you might push her away for good. Since you can't see your boyfriend outside of school, you probably can't see her either. Maybe she doesn't want the friendship to die out and is trying to make the most of it.
I think you should alternate days with your friends, your boyfriend, and all of you together. Like Mondays can be the day you all sit together, Tuesdays and Thursdays can be days with your friends and Wednesdays and Fridays can be with your boyfriend. Your life shouldn't revolve around your boyfriend and since you can't go out of the house too much anymore, you need to stay close to your friends as well. He probably would like to hang out with just his friends at times too. Tell her that you want some days alone with your boyfriend. |
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nikkkkki she's taking my boyfriend away Apr 25 2006, 08:10 PM
pinayprincess then tell her; dont sit back and watch; if you fee... Apr 25 2006, 08:15 PM digital.fragrance I know you don't want to do this, but you have... Apr 25 2006, 08:18 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b Tell her. Or go somewhere new at lunch with only y... Apr 25 2006, 08:19 PM x___F0RG0TTEN mmm i agree with everyone else in here. if you don... Apr 25 2006, 08:22 PM silver rain Yeah, definitely talk to her. Tell her how you wou... Apr 25 2006, 08:24 PM pastellove_ If nothing is said, nothing will be changed.
you ... Apr 25 2006, 08:36 PM anoniez if going up to her and telling her is too much of ... Apr 25 2006, 08:43 PM PU$$Y_PUMP#R_3000 Kill her Apr 25 2006, 08:44 PM
pastellove_ QUOTE(PU$$Y_PUMP#R_3000 @ Apr 25 20... Apr 28 2006, 12:37 AM |
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