feeling a little guilty..., opinions? |
 Apr 24 2006, 01:50 AM
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So I asked this guy (ill call him A) to my junior prom. I used to like him at camp but he liked my friend (i always end up in this situation....grr haha) but there was something there. We're pretty good friends now.
I know its kind of a bad thing to do...but I'm thinking about asking the guy I really like to go too. despite already inviting A. There's a slim chance B (guy i really like) could come anyways, so would it be terrible just to ask? I'm thinking on the very off chance he says ok...I can make a decision then. But I still feel bad about going behind A's back...  A does know that I really like B tho, and we're just friends.Also, my parents are very hard to deal with when it comes to guys...I think I've solved this problem tho: crash a friends place. Paying for tickets might be tricky...tho I guess A and B would both understand (they would send $ and stuff)...I feel werid tho not being able to say like, stay over. But my bro's first reaction when I told him about A having to sleep over was, and I quote; "Ohhhh gooood"  They're great parents and i love them...but we just never tlak about these things. soooo yeah...thoughts? I think my main quesiton is, is it bad to ask B on the off chance...but I really really like him and I think I might regret not asking. 
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Apr 25 2006, 07:50 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, I agree with everyone; you already asked A so you should go with him. Maybe B will be there too so you can dance with him if you want, I'm sure A wouldn't mind since he knows that you like B.
But, if you really like B and really want to go with him, you should tell A that even though you would have enjoyed going to prom with him, that you do like A a lot and wish to go with him. And if it were OK with A if you went with B instead. |
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nightowl89 feeling a little guilty... Apr 24 2006, 01:50 AM
Trumpetman4eva well if you already asked A, shouldnt you only go ... Apr 24 2006, 08:41 AM Chii You should have asked B first. But right now, you ... Apr 24 2006, 12:33 PM
ashopely QUOTE(Chii @ Apr 24 2006, 1:33 PM) You sh... Apr 24 2006, 04:32 PM _sarcastic_ ^ i agree
you've already asked A, just go with... Apr 24 2006, 03:19 PM chaneun If you really want to go with both equally, and A ... Apr 24 2006, 04:37 PM Smoogrish ^ Haha Christine is that what you do?
I really wo... Apr 24 2006, 09:28 PM mipadi You already made a committment to A, and it would ... Apr 25 2006, 09:56 AM |
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