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PLEASE i need some help
Stephan
post Apr 18 2006, 08:47 PM
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im despirate so ill just get right to the point. theres this girl at school i like and i need advice on how to talk to her. i can never get up the courage and the 1 or 2 times i did ... it didnt end up very well. we have no mutal friends and the only class i have with her is the only class i have with my ex girlfriend, who is determined to ruin my life stubborn.gif _dry.gif . my friends act like assholes to her and her friend told her i was a jerk. what can i do?!??
 
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 11:00 PM
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Definitely not a good thing that your ex-girlfriend's so jealous that she would get others to be on her side. Yes, girls can be evil even though I'm one myself. Telling from what I see and hear about others at school, or me being evil to my crush. I can't help it, but I'm not going into that.

Hmm, just make sure that your affection for this new girl wouldn't turn into a war or something with your ex-girlfriend, just to prove that you're better than everything she has said about you. I'm sure it isn't that, but I'm just telling you, watch out in the future.

Anywho, if you really want to talk to her, you know what you can do? Take one moment in class or when you guys are eating lunch, and somehow casually wound up in her presence. Especially around her friends. you know how I met my crush? It was really awkward, but the first time I talked to him, when I was being picked on my friend, this fat kid. Lol, he teases me on being small and likes to push me around to annoy me. Anyway, what I'm saying is that if you want to get to know this girl, you can try to get to know her by standing up for her (my crush did that. he got into a mini-fight with the dude just because of what he was doing to me!). Or simply hang around with her friends and your friends, and then casually get closer to her. Not close close, but close enough to talk about something that you guys are already talking about, or if you know she likes something, somehow bring it up in the conversation. Even though you don't have mutual friends, I am sure that there is someone that you might even know as a classmate that could be a reason for you to talk to her.

Hope this helps!
 

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Stephan   PLEASE i need some help   Apr 18 2006, 08:47 PM
pinayprincess   well; you need to MIND your ex, and just forget he...   Apr 18 2006, 11:21 PM
My Cinderella.   QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Apr 19 2006, 12:21 ...   Apr 22 2006, 10:44 AM
x___F0RG0TTEN   you should ignore your ex. and prove her friend wr...   Apr 18 2006, 11:33 PM
Chii   Be yourself around the girl. Prove that her friend...   Apr 18 2006, 11:33 PM
mipadi   My rule of thumb: If it takes a lot of effort to i...   Apr 19 2006, 09:26 AM
c0cONuTTeR   Well, muck up the courage to talk to her. Write h...   Apr 19 2006, 09:49 AM
_sarcastic_   ignore your ex, she's just jealous of that gir...   Apr 19 2006, 11:16 AM
ja-hou   Why cant you talk to her? Just go up to her and sa...   Apr 19 2006, 05:43 PM
Stephan   i cant really pass a note to her cause my x, one w...   Apr 19 2006, 05:49 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(Stephan @ Apr 19 2006, 6:49 PM) not...   Apr 19 2006, 10:50 PM
Stephan   HELP!!!!!!!!!...   Apr 19 2006, 09:21 PM
I own yourr face.   Be friends with her first, just be kind. Act like ...   Apr 19 2006, 10:19 PM
seremela_culnamo   Definitely not a good thing that your ex-girlfrien...   Apr 19 2006, 11:00 PM
Stephan   well i did try that allready- my x was makein fun ...   Apr 20 2006, 09:24 PM
Stephan   to make this a little easier the girl i like's...   Apr 20 2006, 09:34 PM
ashopely   You have to ingnore your ex, as hard as it seems.   Apr 20 2006, 09:37 PM
corizzle20   that pisses me off. i would go up to ur ex and soc...   Apr 21 2006, 03:48 AM
Stephan   lol corizzle yeah i have a lot of people that woul...   Apr 21 2006, 09:19 PM
Stephan   yeah thats what ive been trying to do but i never ...   Apr 23 2006, 09:03 PM


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