i think my fiance likes my sister Options

[tap_that_ash]

im 19 and so is the fiance i have been dating him for over 2 years
and plan on getting married this upcoming november..but the thing
is that i constantly find my sister who is 16 and him talkign together
liek out in the garage or the backyard she always wants him to go
driving with her and if i walk up while they are talking my sister will
walk away..and he will change whatever subject they are talking
abotu and ask me if i am mad at him..this past sunday i started a water
fight with them but he focused on her he drenched her in water and
was chasing her around and i was jsut standing there completly dry
and doing nothing shes always hitting him and tackling him they text
each other all the time and he will get mad if i look at his phone at all
and say that im trying to control him..im i paranoid or do you think
there is something that i should be watching more closely?
thanks for your help
ash

[Chii]

Do you have any brothers and does he have any sisters? Maybe it's purely a sibling thing. If you don't have any older brothers than maybe your sister sees your fiancee as the big brother she never had and he sees her as the little sister he never had.

I hit my older brother sometimes but I am definitely not flirting with him. If my brother and I were still close, we'd text each other too. It makes sense for him to be mad when you try to snoop in his phone, that's such an invasion of privacy. I have nothing to hide but I don't want people looking at my personal messages or whatever.

But, you should talk to them both about it anyway. It's better to be safe than sorry.