What Should I Do?, HELP Options

[missmari1]

I like this guy Arthur and my friend Dee always flirts with him. Well
> it really bothers me. I tell Arthur about it and we had this big
fight
> (no hitting or anything) because he says he likes me better than Dee.
> So then they always talks on the phone and they lie about talking on
> the phone. I told Arthur how I feel and he just said that he likes me
> and that he doesn't want Dee to feel bad or sad. But I'm feeling sad.
> What should I do? Should I stop talking to Dee and Arthur or just one
> of them? Cause if I stop talking to Arthur, Arthur is going to keep
> talking to Dee and it makes me jealous. Please help me. Also they talk about thinks that i should know cause me and Arthur are talking ( trying to hook up)

[missmari1]

Well the problem is that when me and dee and him are on the phone he always flirts with her and says good things about her like oh ur hot or ur sexy. that bothers me i kno maybe it shouldnt but it does. then sometimes he puts me down like he says oh u dont have a life or like ur lame r something like that it makes me rele pissed and then he wonders y im mad at him

[Chii]

Well the problem is that when me and dee and him are on the phone he always flirts with her and says good things about her like oh ur hot or ur sexy. that bothers me i kno maybe it shouldnt but it does. then sometimes he puts me down like he says oh u dont have a life or like ur lame r something like that it makes me rele pissed and then he wonders y im mad at him

This just keeps getting more confusing.

First, you say that they lie about talking to each other on the phone. But, you all talk together at the same time? How can someone lie about that?

If this guy puts you down like that then why do you bother staying with him even after he knows that he upsets you?