telling somebody you like them., =) Options

[-sincerely]

i really want to tell this guy i like him. some days he acts like he likes me, and others he doesn't, so i'm not sure how he feels about me. but i have to tell him. and i can only tell him online, don't see him in person cos its break, and i dont have his phone number, only his screenname. but he's only on for like two seconds when he gets on, and i'm a real shy person. so i need something short and sweet to tell him. i'm not the type of person that i can just go up to a guy and say HEY I LIKE YOU. thanks tons. [=

i also dont want to ruin our friendship.

[seremela_culnamo]

I don't know your crush, but if he's similiar to my crush, it's somewhat a good thing. Meaning he can read people easily. Not good when you want to shy away from him, but good when you want him to know something is up. Anyway, my crush found out that I liked him when I didn't even want him to know that I like him. Like I said one simple sentence and he kinda guessed it was true. This is what I said when we were alone in his car when he took me out to buy some stuff, "I was worried that you liked -my best friends name-". I said that when he asked me what type of guys I liked, when we talked about my best friend who likes this jerk. So yea, from that, he guessed. It was a slip, but then I seriously didn't think he will take it more than anything and would read it wrong (well, wrong in the sense that it allowed him to know the truth!). Eventually he forced the truth out of my best friend, so yea.

All I'm trying to say is that if you want him to know, say it casually as if it's not on purpose. Only if he can read people well though! But since you actually want him to know, I suggest casually telling him, but not so indirectly like the way I did.

I hope you get what I mean. It's kind of confusing to explain the suggestion I'm trying to provide you with. Best of luck =) I will always stop by to see how it's going. It reminds me a bit of myself.