What Should I Do?, HELP Options

[missmari1]

I like this guy Arthur and my friend Dee always flirts with him. Well
> it really bothers me. I tell Arthur about it and we had this big
fight
> (no hitting or anything) because he says he likes me better than Dee.
> So then they always talks on the phone and they lie about talking on
> the phone. I told Arthur how I feel and he just said that he likes me
> and that he doesn't want Dee to feel bad or sad. But I'm feeling sad.
> What should I do? Should I stop talking to Dee and Arthur or just one
> of them? Cause if I stop talking to Arthur, Arthur is going to keep
> talking to Dee and it makes me jealous. Please help me. Also they talk about thinks that i should know cause me and Arthur are talking ( trying to hook up)

[Chii]

I hate to break it to you but you have no right to be jealous over him. He's just your crush, he's not your boyfriend, you two aren't even dating.

You really need to get over it. Guys are always going to have female friends. Even if you two start dating, you can't expect him to stop talking to other girls or pretend like they all don't exist.

Apparently if you two are in talks of getting together, Dee shouldn't be a threat anyway.


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