Age..... Options

[sarangxai]

What do you think of realtionships with age gaps? Especially someone in their teens with someone in their early adulthood? It's often looked down up on, but what if you really love the person and don't want to make the mistake of letting them go and then later wonder "what if? what if?"

[sweetlyz]

What do you think of realtionships with age gaps? Especially someone in their teens with someone in their early adulthood? It's often looked down up on, but what if you really love the person and don't want to make the mistake of letting them go and then later wonder "what if? what if?"

well uhh .. the thing is, yOo may not even know what love is. adult men or women have certain expectations when it comes to a relationship. i highly doubt they`ll be with a really young person just cause they "love" them. they have needs that need to be taken care of .. something that maybe a young person can`t do considering the fact that they have other things goin in there life, like their future and education. its hard to explain but i think most of yOo might get my point. some age gaps are alright .. but its to a certain extent ya`know? i mean if yOo have more than 6years gap, i personally believe is weird. Not wrong but just weird for me .. that`s just tOo old ya`know? And if its more than 10 .. oh gawd now that i think is wrong! if you`re 14 and yOo wanna be with a 24 year old?? uhhh noo, that`s statutory rape right there. Its illegal.

i get it .. love has no age. So what, if you`re in love with a 40 year old and your only 17 .. would yOo go for it? First of all .. what would a 40 year old person want with a 17 year old?? That `s jailbait man .. and that`s just sick! He`s a pedaphile! Would yOo ever consider that if yOo were so called in love with this person? I think yes, age aint nothing but a number when it comes to love .. but to a certain extent for me. That`s just my opinion.

there are some points that were made in here that when yOo get married yOo might marry someone younger, that i get. i guess when i say it comes to a certain extent .. i mean if you`re younger than 18 and dating someone 6years+ then that`s just disturbing to me, but once your 18 or older .. then go for whatever yOo want. I dunno, maybe i`m being unreasonable .. but again, its just my opinion and how i would feel about it. Do what yOo want to do then.