Do you misuse the word 'gay'?, What do you think about people that do? Options

[*Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg*]

I messed up the poll again... so, if you want to vote for the first one, just post it in a reply. Or one of the mods can fix it.

Personally, I find people who use the word "gay" to mean stupid is incredibly offensive. When a person says something like "THAT'S SO GAY!", I swear a blood vessel pops in my head. And when I bring it up with my friends, they say things like, "I have gay friends and they say it too!" Well, your gay friends are the only homosexuals in the whole world.

Anyway, what do you think of it? You obviously know my answer.

[I hope this is in the proper forum, if not feel free to move it!]

[crazeegirl411]

that IS just stupid, as well as childish, because it is a trivial, non sensical point, as female dogs are not capable of feeling offended by it... you are equating the emotions of an animal with that of a human being. I certainly feel that that is justification enough for saying it was a stupid point. It was a ridiculou thing to say

- yea, i accept other words that evolved... thats the point. but this one has a predefinition (word?) which makes the third definition offensive. that is the difference between it and othe rnew slang.

- no no... i understood your point, it just wasnt very good. its STILL the same thing, because it is the casual use of a word which may offend... are you honestly too dense to see that?

- to be honest, i cant think of a word which i use frequently which could be offensive to a group of people... if someone could give me a reasobale explanation of why it was offensive, then yes, i would try as much as possible to break that habit.

- cant be botherd to row about fag, because its the same argument over again.

I'm getting tired of this. You're putting your opinions in this way too much. "It's stupid, it's ridiculous, are you too dense?"

If you think that comparing animal and human being is different, then comparing a greeting with the adjective is the same thing. It's the same thing in equating two different things.

I didn't necessarily mean it's a word used frequently. But okay...

[*I Shot JFK*]

I'm getting tired of this. You're putting your opinions in this way too much. "It's stupid, it's ridiculous, are you too dense?"

If you think that comparing animal and human being is different, then comparing a greeting with the adjective is the same thing. It's the same thing in equating two different things.

I didn't necessarily mean it's a word used frequently. But okay...

well... this is about opinions... you're opinion is that it is fine, mine is that it isnt... kind of the point of this kind of discussion.

see, now you're frustrating me. animals do not feel degraded by the use of bitch. it is no ta possibility. gay PEOPLE can. therein lies that difference.

the use of something as an adjective, vs that of a greeting is not a significant differenc, because it is STILL the casual use of a word which may cause offense in everyday conversation. the fact that you've got this hangup about parts of speech is preventing useful progression of the conversation. if you can explain to me why the part of speech is significant, then do so, rather than just stating the obvious.

Well..he IS allowed to post his opinions, even though he doesn't have to be so scathing about it.

well the point WAS ridiculous. dont say something in a debate or whatever and then assume no one will call you on it.

but remarks like "your point is stupid" is just unnecessary.

not really. its a condensed expression of why what you are ssaying is irrelevant, adn was accompanied by an explanation. get over it.

[flc]

not really. its a condensed expression of why what you are ssaying is irrelevant, adn was accompanied by an explanation. get over it.

And you have the nerve to tell me that the things I say are ignorant? -_- Saying "Your point is stupid," even with an explanation in a debate is childish. Accept that you're not perfect and above us all.

Crazeegirl411, stop arguing with him. I agree with you, so you can be content with that. You're not going to change his mind, and he's not going to change ours.

[*Statues/Shadows*]

You're not going to change his mind, and he's not going to change ours.

That too is pretty ignorant. narrow minded much? How is the world supposed to progress at all if people won't even try to accept other points of view?

[flc]

That too is pretty ignorant. narrow minded much? How is the world supposed to pregress at all if people won't even try to accept other points of view?

So people aren't allowed to agree to disagree? This "arguement" really was going nowhere, and crazeegirl411 seemed to be getting mad. Debate is about debating, not about getting angry.

Plus I was just getting bored with this topic. You guys know my sentiments on this, so that's it.

well, childish or not it was true. and perfection isnt a requirement for seeing clear flaws...

I never said you had to be perfect. I at least expected you yourself to show some maturity, since your main arguement in all of this was that "gay" is ignorant, and since you come off as the model Createblog member.