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in love with a gangster
lakerfever2476
post Apr 4 2006, 05:44 PM
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ok this is so weird
im like a smart 4.0 student and stuff
and i like this total rebel.. and he likes me too
hes been in juvie and hes now on house arrest
is it wrong to like him?
i havent told any of my friends this because im ashamed of it

i really dont know what to do
we're only 14 and everything >_>


edit// btw hes white not black haha
 
 
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Just_Dream
post Apr 16 2006, 05:23 PM
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... Wow. Well, as long as you love him, right? lol And if you're ashamed about it, you shoudl really question whether you want to be with him, since you seem embarrassed to tell people that you like someone like him. And if you're in "love" as you say, keep in mind that LOVE KNOWS NO BOUNDARIES, as the saying goes.

Don't you think that you should try to influence him to change, for the better? If you really want a future with him, try to help him change so that he may have a future. If he's been to juvenile hall and is under house arrest, try to help him in some way. Maybe the best thing for you to do is to tell someone, so that others may help too. I mean think about it, you don't want to be with someone that does things like that. I know what I'm saying may sound biased, but you have to know that even if a guy is sweet to you and is the perfect person, you should try to work towards a better future with him, so that you won't have to be embarrassed about him, and that he'll work to change himself in order to love you.

No one should change who they truly are, but who you fell in love with -- it isn't a gangster, right? If you fell for a sweet and romantic king of guy, who's quirky and funny and knows how to sweep you off your feet, he needs to be true to you AND himself.

THat just my opinion though. You can do whatever you want, but if you really have to question yourself like this, it's making you doubt your own relationship, where love isn't the glue that holds you two together.. anymore...
 

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lakerfever2476   in love with a gangster   Apr 4 2006, 05:44 PM
Kounouri   Don't be ashamed. As long as he's good to...   Apr 4 2006, 07:43 PM
jooleeah   QUOTE(Kounouri @ Apr 4 2006, 8:43 PM) Don...   Apr 16 2006, 05:31 PM
sillakilla220   hahaha... well since u r so smart figure it out yo...   Apr 4 2006, 08:08 PM
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx   You're a smart kid I'm sure you can figure...   Apr 4 2006, 08:12 PM
L!ckitySplit   you just wanna bang em'. its okay nothing wron...   Apr 4 2006, 08:14 PM
sillakilla220   it actually is the title of a song Coolio - Mama...   Apr 4 2006, 08:55 PM
L!ckitySplit   I f**kin KNEW IT! I KNEW THAT SHIT!^   Apr 4 2006, 08:57 PM
_sarcastic_   it's alright to like a gangster. you can't...   Apr 4 2006, 09:09 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   In love with a Gangster - Knightowl In love with a...   Apr 4 2006, 09:14 PM
INSANITY IS LAUGHING   Don't be ashamed, we can't help who we lik...   Apr 4 2006, 09:16 PM
My Cinderella.   They say that opposites attract. You shouldn't...   Apr 4 2006, 09:20 PM
Programmer   in the words of .........slim thug "good gir...   Apr 4 2006, 09:20 PM
xklipse   yeah, oppisite usually attracts...but you guys are...   Apr 4 2006, 09:23 PM
My Cinderella.   QUOTE(xklipse @ Apr 4 2006, 10:23 PM) yea...   Apr 4 2006, 09:26 PM
L!ckitySplit   QUOTE(xklipse @ Apr 4 2006, 9:23 PM) most...   Apr 4 2006, 09:29 PM
lakerfever2476   QUOTE(xklipse @ Apr 4 2006, 9:23 PM) yeah...   Apr 5 2006, 05:53 PM
My Cinderella.   QUOTE(lakerfever2476 @ Apr 5 2006, 6:53 P...   Apr 5 2006, 05:57 PM
x___F0RG0TTEN   hmm.. i would suggest that as long as you two real...   Apr 4 2006, 09:24 PM
xklipse   ^gah, thats true x( society these day *shakes hea...   Apr 4 2006, 09:32 PM
Programmer   wow...listen to all the negitivity...you have no i...   Apr 4 2006, 10:04 PM
My Cinderella.   ^ I agree. If you get to know them, they can be t...   Apr 4 2006, 10:07 PM
nightmare4taki   What about that T Pain song , kinda of similar t...   Apr 4 2006, 10:13 PM
My Cinderella.   ^ That's what I first thought when I read th...   Apr 4 2006, 10:36 PM
mSz_dOrk_anGeL   Hahaha. Now I have the song "I'm in Luv w...   Apr 5 2006, 12:21 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   Mmm... sounds dangerous. I wouldnn't waste my ...   Apr 5 2006, 12:25 PM
Flavored Condom   You like someone, nothing wrong with that. But I d...   Apr 5 2006, 03:56 PM
lanbexx   QUOTE(Flavored Condom @ Apr 5 2006, 3:56 ...   Apr 15 2006, 06:25 PM
tanichick   oh wow this is kinda ironic, i was just talking to...   Apr 5 2006, 06:16 PM
lakerfever2476   yea im serious he says that he and his friends w...   Apr 5 2006, 07:53 PM
Flavored Condom   You know what? I personally think you should find ...   Apr 5 2006, 07:59 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   So it started out as a joke, and because of he won...   Apr 5 2006, 10:16 PM
lilxl0ser   i guess you shouldn't be ashamed. who you like...   Apr 6 2006, 08:33 AM
imnoxonesmemory   well... you're smart. so i think as long as yo...   Apr 13 2006, 04:20 AM
Paradox of Life   ... It sounds like you're saying, "I know...   Apr 13 2006, 09:22 AM
Spiritual Winged Aura   Yeah :) i think you can definitely change his lif...   Apr 13 2006, 02:09 PM
xxaznxgurlxx   Well .. think of it. Your a 4.0 student. &...   Apr 13 2006, 04:14 PM
im just a stupid worthless boy   honestly if u gotta ask that question i think r st...   Apr 13 2006, 07:07 PM
lyin_in_wait   you cant help who you like, but in no way let your...   Apr 15 2006, 02:30 PM
Jenny Tran   noo it's not wrong.. like whoever you want to ...   Apr 16 2006, 12:04 PM
Just_Dream   ... Wow. Well, as long as you love him, right? lol...   Apr 16 2006, 05:23 PM
lanbexx   since it seems no one else is... ill play the cyni...   Apr 16 2006, 10:38 PM
Krunk_Muzik   Man, ashamed of what? "Love" doesn't...   Apr 16 2006, 11:23 PM


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