in love with a gangster |
in love with a gangster |
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![]() I'm with Stupid. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 ![]() |
ok this is so weird
im like a smart 4.0 student and stuff and i like this total rebel.. and he likes me too hes been in juvie and hes now on house arrest is it wrong to like him? i havent told any of my friends this because im ashamed of it i really dont know what to do we're only 14 and everything >_> edit// btw hes white not black haha |
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![]() durian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 ![]() |
... Wow. Well, as long as you love him, right? lol And if you're ashamed about it, you shoudl really question whether you want to be with him, since you seem embarrassed to tell people that you like someone like him. And if you're in "love" as you say, keep in mind that LOVE KNOWS NO BOUNDARIES, as the saying goes.
Don't you think that you should try to influence him to change, for the better? If you really want a future with him, try to help him change so that he may have a future. If he's been to juvenile hall and is under house arrest, try to help him in some way. Maybe the best thing for you to do is to tell someone, so that others may help too. I mean think about it, you don't want to be with someone that does things like that. I know what I'm saying may sound biased, but you have to know that even if a guy is sweet to you and is the perfect person, you should try to work towards a better future with him, so that you won't have to be embarrassed about him, and that he'll work to change himself in order to love you. No one should change who they truly are, but who you fell in love with -- it isn't a gangster, right? If you fell for a sweet and romantic king of guy, who's quirky and funny and knows how to sweep you off your feet, he needs to be true to you AND himself. THat just my opinion though. You can do whatever you want, but if you really have to question yourself like this, it's making you doubt your own relationship, where love isn't the glue that holds you two together.. anymore... |
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