wait for him? |
wait for him? |
![]()
Post
#1
|
|
Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 226,933 ![]() |
okay, this is kinda like the "im in love with a gangster" one... well hes a thug... i care about him, and we had a good relationship. but he got sent to juvie.. (again!) before he left i told him we should go on a "break" till he came back, he was kinda upset but he told me that he wanted to be there for me but couldnt be right now... so should i wait for him? i dont even know when hes getting how... he went in about 1 1/2 months ago, so he could be back either next month or i dont know?? please i need advice!
|
|
|
![]() |
![]()
Post
#2
|
|
![]() durian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 ![]() |
Hmm, I'd have to agree with Chrissy on that if you really care about him enough, you should know better.
It is confusing, but think about it.. WHY do you want to be on a break? I mean, are you going to jump into another relationship or something? It seems like you're not, then just stay with him. You want to be with him, right? Then wait for him! You say "I'm in love witha gangster", then you should realize that love knows NO boundaries. Haha as cheesy as that may sound, it's true. Try to visit him every now and then, if you can. I'm not sure if those in juvie can get visitors, but most likely they can, so see if you can get a visiting period set up. That way, you can still contact him. Also I think that, well by what I'm getting from your side of the story, he really wants to be with you, so you should give him a chance. It won't hurt, right? :] Although, if I were you, I would've either never gotten together with a gangster/thung-type kind of guy or I would've made him stop being a gangster... That's just me, of course. :P |
|
|
![]() ![]() |