Stalker, - Someone I never liked Options

[seremela_culnamo]

The topic title and topic description really says it all, but it started happening last week.

So there's this guy in my politics class in first semester. I only talked to him like what? Five times before I dropped the course. Anyway, so I hardly know this dude at all. Later last semester, he started to come out of nowhere and started poking me. "Okay, what's the deal? O-well. He's probably just one of those who have no life, but likes to bother girls by poking them". I told myself that, but this semester, it got worse.

Starting last week, he appears everywhere I go. I am so freaked out by him, I will walk to the other side of the hall and away from my friends if he's walking by. He starts skipping class to stay with my friends and I during our spare, his poking is somewhat more like feeling, he grabs onto my hands, he flicks and plays with my hair, he takes me stuff -takes the chance to touch me and etc. He's so annoying and freaky, that I have been telling him repeatedly how annoying he is and told him to get lost. That's the first time I have ever been mean to anyone (well, compared to my siblings! =P) and yet, he still doesn't get it. I actually shoved him out of the way and screamed at him in the hall when he hugged me. Dude! I do't like people getting into physical contact, especially if I don't like you. & the only person who can is someone else or my good/best friends!

I have gone to the point when I'm obvious, aside from telling him to go away. When he asked me for my MSN, I was like "I don't have MSN", but he knew I was lying, so I told him I forgot about my e-mail address. At that point, I really didn't care how mean I can get. & you know what's sad? Before this all happened, he knew my name, but I told him he was wrong. & guess what did he do? He went around asking all the guys for my name. Seriously, what the heck? Then he comes looking for me and asking my friends where I am all the time. My friends know so they tell him I'm sick or whatever. They are annoyed, too. Geez, my best friend tried to get him away from me by saying that she has something really important to tell me. But what does he do? He stands there and doesn't go away! Geez, it's really annoying me. If he was cute and actually someone I know and has a great personality, I wouldn't mind as much. But hello? He doesn't match any of those!

I actually asked my mom about what I should do. But she wasn't even taking it seriously. This dude really freaks me out and when people tell me that he likes me, even people who don't see us together can guess the stalker is him, I thought my mom will be serious. But guess what does she say? She tells me to tell my friend to go scare him off or beat him up if he bothers me again. This "friend" is someone who she thought that I was dating, and even though we didn't, a lot of stuff has gone between us and as of right now, I'm not talking to him. I'm pretending that my friend isn't even there. That's a whole different issue anyway.

What should I do?

[seremela_culnamo]

Thanks for all the advice everyone.

Anywho, I hurted my ankle and I was on crutches (still am). During my spare, he came around and was being an idiot while I was sitting with my two friends. He took the crutches and tried to poke me with them. Then he tries to touch my bruised and swelled up ankle. So my friend took it from his hands and before I could yell at him, she did it for me. I was going to butt in, but then I let her do the job. She has been so stressed out lately, and she was already pissed off at him for insulting her boyfriend. Also for the fact that she's falling behind in school and then her grandpa's recent death. After all the screaming for a few minutes, he eventually gave up and left. She shoved him out of the way while I was at my locker since I couldn't really do anything, unless I take my crutches and wack him away with it. But since we were outside of a teacher's office, that wouldn't be good if one of them came out.

Thursday after school, I was extremely pissed. I wasn't talking to anyone and he comes around, and starts poking me. I shoved him out of the way and went, "DON'T FU-TOUCH ME!!!" right in front of the entire school. Thank goodness I didn't swear, although I almost did! I was so pissed off, I was going to wack him right over the head with my chemistry textbook. The next day during my spare, I was alone for awhile since my friend was in the washroom. He comes by and sits down, asking me why I was so rude. & I told him I was just pissed already and I said I didn't want to talk about it at all. He noticed my tone and then just shut up and didn't bother me at all. Thank goodness my crush comes out eventually and he saves me.

Either he's really starting to get the hint (wow, finally!) or he's just getting bored of the stalking and taking a break from it now.