she's taking advantage of me!, What should I do?? |
 Apr 13 2006, 04:39 AM
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 In life, make choices & don't look back  Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 336,891  |
I'm not going to lie to anyone, I love my girlfriend a lot. So much that I would do almost anything for her and she knows it too. The last time we hooked back up from a breakup I asked her what are your feelings for me like? She told me that she care and like me a lot. Also love me but not as much as I love her. Just a little. She told me that she know my weakness and my weakness is her. She takes advantage of me because she knows that I will always be there for her no matter what even if she treats me bad. She broke up with me before saying that I don't love her, I'm obsessed about her. Well I think that's called unconditionally love... She talk crap about me to her friends, broke up with me for another guy before, when i'm there with her and when her friends are around she act like we arn't even dating. Friends of mine said she's a bitch and I should get a better gf but I don't know I am so in love with her. I am one confused/stupid lil boy...ain't I?
Well now....what is the right thing to do? For a girl like that....what are the options to get her to truly love me or there is NO other ways?? I am really confused right now and don't know what to do so i'm asking you guys to help me out please...thanks 
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Apr 13 2006, 02:04 PM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
In a way, I know that feeling. You can't just stop loving someone (no matter how bad of a person he/she is) and move on. Breaking up is so much harder than it seems. Do you feel like you'd rather be taken advantage of if it means you could be with her?
If that's the case, there are several choices. Try to make her realize that you're the greatest guy for her...but girls are just like that. Either they fall for you and love you unconditionally (like you are for her) or they are heartless no matter how you feel towards them. Sometimes there is just no way around it. So...I would just have to suggest the hard way. To stop your love from going any farther and end the relationship. It may be really really hard and you may not want to. It is hard, and you probably really don't want to. But you can't hurt yourself like this forever. Maybe this would be a chance for her to realize how great of a guy you are. Maybe this would be a chance for you to realize that there are other girls more worth it to go for. Maybe this is a chance for a break. Or maybe this is a chance to really end the hurt in yourself, and new relationships (or none) for both of you. If there are so many good possibilities besides the situation you are in right now, then why not go for it? |
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Spec_R she's taking advantage of me! Apr 13 2006, 04:39 AM
dani41790 It's just not right how she takes advantage of... Apr 13 2006, 04:59 AM Nadia I think you deserve someone better than her. If sh... Apr 13 2006, 05:31 AM viola_winnie i think you should leave her as shes a bitch,end t... Apr 13 2006, 05:46 AM imnoxonesmemory for a girl... if they really don't feel the sa... Apr 13 2006, 05:53 AM _sarcastic_ i don't think she should be treating you that ... Apr 13 2006, 05:57 AM Paradox of Life Firstly, you are NOT stupid. You are LETTING her t... Apr 13 2006, 09:29 AM mipadi You can't get something to love you, no matter... Apr 13 2006, 11:36 AM moorepocket teach her a lesson. Don't return her calls, be... Apr 13 2006, 11:37 AM Spiritual Winged Aura how old are you?
You sounds so immature for a rel... Apr 13 2006, 01:58 PM silver rain Yeah, like what everyone has said, you do deserve ... Apr 13 2006, 02:37 PM Spec_R QUOTEhow old are you?
You sounds so immature for ... Apr 13 2006, 03:09 PM Chii Listen to the people who care about you (your frie... Apr 13 2006, 03:10 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK That's not unconditional love. Unconditional l... Apr 13 2006, 03:16 PM xxaznxgurlxx If you are willing to do so much stuff for somethi... Apr 13 2006, 04:17 PM Im too punk rock for this i know what it is like to unconditionally love som... Apr 13 2006, 04:25 PM x___F0RG0TTEN mmmkays first of all... how can you love someone i... Apr 13 2006, 07:27 PM priyas Leave her. She clearly does NOT respect you. Treat... Apr 13 2006, 07:35 PM xklipse ah, wow. I don't know what kind of advice I sh... Apr 13 2006, 07:45 PM Preeti You need to talk to her one last time. Tell her ho... Apr 15 2006, 07:00 AM Hiphop d[-_-]b You can't win somebodys love if you've los... Apr 16 2006, 09:44 AM moorepocket are you talking to me Spiritual Winged Aura?
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Spiritual Winged Aura well, the reasons i thought of that way is because... Apr 20 2006, 09:07 PM babiexmuii its great that you love her..but you should never ... Apr 19 2006, 08:00 PM L!ckitySplit Welp! she must be pretty hot Apr 20 2006, 10:12 PM corizzle20 how far is this relationship? did u guys make out?... Apr 21 2006, 03:47 AM Spec_R QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Apr 20 2006, 9... Apr 21 2006, 05:15 AM Paradox of Life ^ He thinks that she must be pretty hot because yo... Apr 21 2006, 08:11 PM Stephan i was in this exact situation last year (all of la... Apr 21 2006, 08:31 PM |
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