We just dont see eye to eye on this subject..., Religion |
 Apr 9 2006, 12:48 PM
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Ok, I have this problem with my boyfriend that he dosen't have the same feelings in God as I do. I love him deeply and I want this relationship to last for a long time to come. I know what some people reading this and are saying to them selfs "Why dose religion matter if you love somebody so much?". It dose for the future. Im just saying what happends if some day when I do wanna get married and have kids with my boyfriend how would we rase our kids and if there around a father that dosen't see eye to eye about the same religion as I do how will our kids life turn out to be. You people are also saying to your selfs " Your still young! Why are you worrying about this now at this time of your life?". Im really not sure why im thinking about this now but hey! its something to reply on! Im also not saying that I will be with this guy for the rest of my life but I must say its been 7 months already and I still cant get him to go to my church with me. What do I do?
O by the way. I didnt know where to put this at and If it needs to be put so where else then put where it needs to be! 
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Apr 11 2006, 09:01 PM
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[size=3][color=#6600CC]Hi,sorry to hear that your having troubles but as a christian, you may know the scripture in the bible that say "do not be unequally yoked" Everyone has the right to choice of religion, whether to partake of it or not but your problems will not get any better with your bf......if he dosnt believe, then that's his right but you should not be dating someone that dosnt hold the same views as your christian values. If you were to date a christian guy, then there would be no probs come sundays and going to church, you would have much more incommon conversationally also. Look...Im a christian and Ive been unequally yoked with partners in the past and it always leads to people getting hurt and alot of frustration being built up. Do not sell you religion just for the sake of a relationship and when getting married, marry a christian man who will hold the same values for your children that you will have instead of running the risk of being at logger heads with every decision concerning future children. I'm really sorry if your hurting over the choices you've made, but there is always a price to pay for all the choices we make in life.
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oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo We just dont see eye to eye on this subject... Apr 9 2006, 12:48 PM
Paradox of Life Relationships is the perfect place for this to be.... Apr 9 2006, 12:55 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo That is true. I do have to say that I respect him ... Apr 9 2006, 12:58 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Apr 9 2006, 1:5... Apr 9 2006, 01:39 PM Chii I understand what you mean about having different ... Apr 9 2006, 01:46 PM zomgznoway I agree with what everyone's said, Shelby. And... Apr 9 2006, 02:05 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo QUOTE(zomgznoway @ Apr 9 2006, 2:05 PM) I... Apr 9 2006, 06:13 PM mipadi You're thinking too far into the future. Live ... Apr 9 2006, 02:05 PM _sarcastic_ i agree with chii and paradox of life.
you do need... Apr 9 2006, 02:07 PM Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg If there's anything I really hate, it's wh... Apr 9 2006, 05:39 PM Kounouri Well, here's the thing.
Both my parents were r... Apr 9 2006, 05:42 PM priyas i agree w/ Chii and paradox of life also. Apr 9 2006, 06:16 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo yeah.. I just need to sit down with him when the t... Apr 9 2006, 06:32 PM mipadi QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Apr 9 2006, 7:3... Apr 10 2006, 02:11 PM Paradox of Life ^ Yeah. I think you should just let the situation ... Apr 10 2006, 03:44 PM Respudious Nah I think if you have a long relationship w/ a p... Apr 10 2006, 03:55 PM aznxdreamer you cant force him to go to church. that may be pu... Apr 11 2006, 09:12 PM shadowchild okay, well, my Dad doesn't believe in God but ... Apr 12 2006, 04:27 PM swtcherriipie QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Apr 9 2006, 1:4... Apr 12 2006, 04:37 PM shadowchild ^
I agree, show him that! Apr 12 2006, 05:08 PM |
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