Are you one of those girls?, Because I am.. |
 Apr 8 2006, 11:57 PM
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You know those girls around school who are always only with guys? I think I'm one of those girls. The problem is, I don't even want a boyfriend until I'm a sophomore in college. (I'm a junior in high school right now), yet people always think that I'm friends with guys only to get with them. The real reason I have so many more guys friends than girls is because of the issues that I've had with my girl friends before.
Okay, so I've never really been able to connect with girls. I don't do a lot of "girly" things, like gossiping, having lots of boyfriends, and putting on makeup. I'm not a tomboy or anything. I just never really got into those kinds of things. The girls see me with my guy friends and automatically assume that I'm a flirt and my only goal is to get with guys, which is totally not the case. In fact, I'd rather have girl friends than guys. I feel left out and wish that I was more girly (ahaha) at times, but I can't make myself into someone that I'm not. When I try to make friends with girls (who are almost all girly at my school), I become this horrible conversationalist with no social skills. The conversations are awkward and boring. It totally sucks, and people always get the wrong impression of me. Soo...my quesion is: Do any of you have these problems? I know I'm not the only one. If you do, what do you do about it to change other people's assumptions about you? |
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Apr 10 2006, 04:31 AM
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I can relate to that. Sort of.
I know what you mean: you've got friends who are girls, too, but when it comes to hanging out, IMing and things like that, it's normally the guys who are there to listen, to hang out and things like that. ... Right? 'Cause I have a friend who's a guy who is always there when I need him. We joke and stuff, walk to classes etc. together at school because most of our classes are the same (and because we're good friends anyway), and everyone thinks that we're flirting and stuff, which is why some of the girls don't even act like they know me around school. I don't have a problem like yours exactly, but I do know what it's like to have everyone going "OMGZ0RZ CHRS && BIANCA LAWL" and misunderstanding... =[ It's hard, I know... |
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sarahjung Are you one of those girls? Apr 8 2006, 11:57 PM
viola_winnie oh my situation is just opposite to yours.
i ca... Apr 9 2006, 12:58 AM I own yourr face. Yea, I'm one of those girls too. During 6th gr... Apr 9 2006, 01:21 AM xSWEETxCANDiix Hmm, well. It must be hard in your situation. I ta... Apr 9 2006, 01:23 AM Intoxique I am a little bit of both. I got as many guy frien... Apr 9 2006, 01:52 AM
sarahjung QUOTE(Intoxique @ Apr 9 2006, 1:52 AM) I ... Apr 9 2006, 02:03 PM DemoiceDevil I feel it`s easier to talk to boy`s then I... Apr 9 2006, 08:23 AM cloudprincess92 like people said above, join a club or soemthing o... Apr 9 2006, 09:29 AM _sarcastic_ i'm kind of in that situation, but i can still... Apr 9 2006, 02:18 PM aznxdreamer i cant really connect with guys. i only have a few... Apr 9 2006, 02:28 PM Chii I love boys. I get along with them much better. I ... Apr 9 2006, 02:41 PM teeners__15 i used to be like that. and well now i still am bu... Apr 9 2006, 02:41 PM ecargnmyst OMG I HAVE THE SAME EXACT PROBLEM AS YOU!... Apr 9 2006, 03:31 PM x__Elle. QUOTE(sarahjung @ Apr 8 2006, 11:57 PM) ... Apr 9 2006, 08:20 PM Paradox of Life QUOTE(x__Elle. @ Apr 9 2006, 8:20 PM) I d... Apr 9 2006, 08:39 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK I have a problem with talking to girls too, thus m... Apr 9 2006, 08:43 PM sarahjung The reason I think of it as a problem is because I... Apr 10 2006, 01:12 AM Angelina Taylor I'm in this exact situation. I've always h... Apr 10 2006, 06:12 AM sarahjung QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Apr 10 2006, 6:12... Apr 11 2006, 01:22 AM Animeloverhk93 QUOTE(sarahjung @ Apr 11 2006, 1:22 AM) T... Apr 11 2006, 05:44 PM rubu1214 You don't need to change yourself at all! ... Apr 10 2006, 12:06 PM LORRYtruck Puahaha.
im the same i guess.
i feel more comforta... Apr 10 2006, 01:31 PM Jayembe yea im sorta like you but then two of my best fren... Apr 10 2006, 05:32 PM kpgrl4eva same. at school i hang out with all guys, and one... Apr 11 2006, 06:02 PM Saranghae. Hmm. I'm not really sure if we have the same c... Apr 11 2006, 06:58 PM mickybeans And here I was thinking that I was the only girl t... Apr 11 2006, 07:19 PM priyas i can relate to girls more. cuz im a girl. Apr 11 2006, 08:16 PM sarahjung Okay, a couple more questions. BTW, I'm so so ... Apr 11 2006, 10:35 PM swimgirlarc i know exactly how you feel
when i talk to girls, ... Apr 12 2006, 09:21 PM livia208 i dont have any problem like ur but my problem is ... May 6 2006, 10:51 PM El Awesome Pants Girls basicly suck. I have alot of online girlfrie... May 6 2006, 11:02 PM jealoushearts That definitely sounds like me. May 7 2006, 12:13 PM ama somewhat.
guys are sometimes easier to be around, ... May 7 2006, 12:26 PM This Confession well when i was in school
i was the exact same as ... May 9 2006, 11:47 PM tainted_angel Well, there are a lot of times when guys are easie... May 9 2006, 11:55 PM serendipity x3 ^Yeah. I have an even amount, but sometimes I like... May 10 2006, 01:12 AM xCrys Haha, I had that problem when I was in school... I... May 10 2006, 02:54 AM msladyliberty Ah!! It's the *Fitting IN* issue!
... May 10 2006, 03:03 AM xbabyboo I`m still in Middle School where the guys are ... May 10 2006, 08:00 PM typh-a-knee Oh yes. It spawns alot of problems when I actually... May 10 2006, 08:08 PM annabel_x I'm more of a tomboy at heart.
On the outside,... May 10 2006, 08:33 PM Crich323 I'm not like that, but I have a friend is.
She... Jun 19 2006, 03:16 PM I_Heart_Blink Well, being as I'm in a Christian school with ... Jun 19 2006, 09:47 PM swaying im able to sometimes connect with girls but lets f... Jun 20 2006, 02:00 AM doork Yeah, I`m a little bit like that.. I love hang... Jun 20 2006, 02:07 AM Cupidangel81092 If u didn't explain b4, I thought u were lesbi... Jun 20 2006, 04:12 PM |
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