Feelings for him, but he's my best friend.... |
 Mar 13 2006, 12:32 AM
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 I scream at men with pink shirts.  Group: Member Posts: 169 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,653  |
He's been my best friend since high school started, even though we don't go to the same school anymore. We weren't close in middle school.
And as of lately, I've been thinking about him more than a friend does. I want to have a relationship with him. I don't know HOW to tell him, or if I should even tell him at all. Advice? 
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Mar 13 2006, 09:32 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Ask him out for a friendly get-together. What did you enjoy to do together before? Go see a movie together or something.
The first step to a relationship is friendship. Get to know him better. Catch up on each other's lives in a coffee shop. The more you see each other, the closer you get. The closer you are, the easier for a deeper relationship. My advice: don't tell him just yet. First, hang out more. |
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Apr 9 2006, 11:54 PM
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I scream at men with pink shirts. Group: Member Posts: 169 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,653 |
QUOTE(K!$$ @ Mar 13 2006, 7:32 AM)  Ask him out for a friendly get-together. What did you enjoy to do together before? Go see a movie together or something. The first step to a relationship is friendship. Get to know him better. Catch up on each other's lives in a coffee shop. The more you see each other, the closer you get. The closer you are, the easier for a deeper relationship. My advice: don't tell him just yet. First, hang out more. Okay, I know it's been a while, but I did ask him. He told me, "I already saw a movie this month. I don't want to see another one." That just really pisses me off.  I don't think he's getting the point. In fact, we talk less online. I don't know if it's because I have AP's coming up, or our grades are falling, or we are both getting pissed off at each other. I still do like him a lot. The worst thing was.... I volunteer at the zoo. I invited him to also volunteer there. You have to apply, so he went for his interview. That night, he asked me online, "What was the name of that really cute girl that was interviewing with me?" I don't know who he was talking about, but he kept pushing it. Overall, he's great.... I think I'm blowing things out of proportion. I want a happy ending for one. 
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novemberwind Feelings for him Mar 13 2006, 12:32 AM
tic tac. Just go up to him and tell him? I'm not good a... Mar 13 2006, 12:36 AM novemberwind Note : We don't go to the same school. We keep... Mar 13 2006, 12:40 AM tic tac. Oh, well then.. IM him and tell him.. o_O
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... Mar 13 2006, 12:45 AM juliar Psh, stuff is so much easier online.
Just ask him... Mar 13 2006, 01:12 AM Paradox of Life QUOTE(K!$$ @ Mar 13 2006, 8... Mar 13 2006, 10:06 AM
Acid Bath Slayer QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Mar 13 2006, 9:06... Mar 13 2006, 10:56 AM |
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