20 years old, inexperienced , and nervous Options

[SleepyWoodson]

Ok so i'm a 20-year-old virgin (21 on August 1st) and i've never even kissed a girl. I never really tried hard to get a girlfriend until these past few months. My big fear now is that I think everybody I meet is experienced and its extremely uncomfortable. I feel like i'll be subpar to them.

If you met me and I told you about my situation of never being intimate at all, would that be a turn off to you? Would you lose some interest? How would you handle this? I'm just asking for your personal opinion here.

I'm also very nervous about my penis size. I'm about 5.5 and have just about 0 clue how to use it (obviously). I just feel so absolutely useless as far as intimacy goes.

this is also a serious post! i'm really that inexperienced

[Chii]

I believe that you are being sincere so I'll leave this open.

Don't worry, there are plenty of virgins out there. I'd think that most girls would think that it's sweet or cute that you're still a virgin. I'm quite experienced for my age and I wouldn't care if my guy was a virgin, he lost it at 20/21 I forget which. Don't buy into the media and whatever about having to lose your virginity before a certain age or asap. Lose it when you are ready, not because you think you need to.

It's not hard to use it, and you're fine. If a girl is upset then that's her problem. Besides, if you get that far she shouldn't be disappointed or care about size. The love should surpass petty things like penis size.