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![]() pfft. ![]() Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,445 ![]() |
do any of you guys have any problems with not trusting your gf/bf? cause i do >.<. we broke up cause i didn't trust him...he has this best friend that's a girl and he's always all over her [[from what i hear from 99% of all my friends]] and from what i see in class and stuff i think he's flirting with this other girl...but she has a boyfriend...i get hurt by it so my trust gets taken away... he's the type to flirt with everyone..he calls it just being nice..he always says i flirt just as much as he does...i dunno -.- to much drama
i kinda wanna change cause i don't wanna be jealous/insecure in future relationships does anyone kknow how to 'cure' this? |
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*mipadi* |
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I never had "trust" issues per se, but once upon a time, I was very paranoid that people didn't like me and weren't really my friends. I think most issues of trust/paranoia stem from one's own feelings of insecurity and inadequacy. Looking back, it's clear the reason I was paranoid is because I was afraid I wasn't good enough, or cool enough, or handsome enough. I think most people with trust issues feel, deep down, that their significant other can't possibly see anything good in them, and will leave them at the first chance possible.
The "cure", then, is to like yourself for who you are, and be happy with yourself. |
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