straight guy or not?, aprroaching him |
 Apr 7 2006, 12:04 AM
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 cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow  Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142  |
Well I have had this crush on a guy since I was a sophmore and now I am a senior. I have always been friends with him and before junior year he got a girlfriend but they dont seem together as much anymore. He has several indications that he might be gay or bi atleast its just i dont know if i should approach him. You know when you have such a crush on someone that it urks you. Like i am not very feminine, i doubt that if i were friends with any of you, you would think that i was bi or gay. But i dont know, Am i just second guessing myself but i dont know what to do.
Should i approach him and tell him? or should i just drop it and not risk losing a friend? If any guys are reading this how would you respond. Please respond i wanna see how you would react. negative or positive. |
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Apr 8 2006, 09:11 AM
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The safest way to ask is to get a girl friend to ask. You're scared of ruining your friendship so that would be the safest thing. It isn't the best solution because its only a bandage. If he is gay or bi you'll still have to reveal your feelings to him. So there really is no way around it, but don't worry if yall have been friends for a while it shouldn't be a problem. True friends understand that friendship means more than a broken crush.
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pandamonium straight guy or not? Apr 7 2006, 12:04 AM
TearsOfAPhoenix what indications made you doubt his sexuality? Apr 7 2006, 12:25 AM
pandamonium QUOTE(TearsOfAPhoenix @ Apr 7 2006, 12:25... Apr 7 2006, 02:44 PM My Cinderella. QUOTE(pandamonium @ Apr 7 2006, 3:44 PM) ... Apr 7 2006, 03:12 PM LORRYtruck Are you a guy or a girl ? Apr 7 2006, 06:23 AM Chii So a person is gay when they care about their appe... Apr 7 2006, 04:34 PM Paradox of Life Ask him if he's bisexual. You guys are friends... Apr 7 2006, 06:39 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK Well if you see him checking out a guy the way a g... Apr 7 2006, 07:31 PM je like french i think you should get a girl friend to ask him...... Apr 7 2006, 09:07 PM pandamonium QUOTE(je like french @ Apr 7 2006, 9:07 P... Apr 8 2006, 03:38 PM J Co ^ Good idea. Apr 7 2006, 10:37 PM je like french those 2 actions aren't necessarily related, th... Apr 8 2006, 04:39 PM |
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