straight guy or not?, aprroaching him |
straight guy or not?, aprroaching him |
Apr 7 2006, 12:04 AM
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![]() cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
Well I have had this crush on a guy since I was a sophmore and now I am a senior. I have always been friends with him and before junior year he got a girlfriend but they dont seem together as much anymore. He has several indications that he might be gay or bi atleast its just i dont know if i should approach him. You know when you have such a crush on someone that it urks you. Like i am not very feminine, i doubt that if i were friends with any of you, you would think that i was bi or gay. But i dont know, Am i just second guessing myself but i dont know what to do.
Should i approach him and tell him? or should i just drop it and not risk losing a friend? If any guys are reading this how would you respond. Please respond i wanna see how you would react. negative or positive. |
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Apr 7 2006, 04:34 PM
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
So a person is gay when they care about their appearance, can dance and strut? Lots of guys are like that!
Just go for it, you've both been friends for awhile so if he's gay and not interested, he'd tell you. You can still be friends if the feelings aren't mutual. |
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pandamonium straight guy or not? Apr 7 2006, 12:04 AM
TearsOfAPhoenix what indications made you doubt his sexuality? Apr 7 2006, 12:25 AM
pandamonium QUOTE(TearsOfAPhoenix @ Apr 7 2006, 12:25... Apr 7 2006, 02:44 PM
My Cinderella. QUOTE(pandamonium @ Apr 7 2006, 3:44 PM) ... Apr 7 2006, 03:12 PM
LORRYtruck Are you a guy or a girl ? Apr 7 2006, 06:23 AM
Paradox of Life Ask him if he's bisexual. You guys are friends... Apr 7 2006, 06:39 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK Well if you see him checking out a guy the way a g... Apr 7 2006, 07:31 PM
je like french i think you should get a girl friend to ask him...... Apr 7 2006, 09:07 PM
pandamonium QUOTE(je like french @ Apr 7 2006, 9:07 P... Apr 8 2006, 03:38 PM
J Co ^ Good idea. Apr 7 2006, 10:37 PM
TearsOfAPhoenix The safest way to ask is to get a girl friend to a... Apr 8 2006, 09:11 AM
je like french those 2 actions aren't necessarily related, th... Apr 8 2006, 04:39 PM![]() ![]() |