Bf/Gf labels in highschool? Options

[swimgirlarc]

yes i did a search on this


who here uses boyfriend/ girlfriend labels in highschool and why??

i'm just wondering. Personally i dont believe in the whole BF/GF label concept in highschool cuz comon...its highschool. If you do have a BF its not like the relationship is going to go anywhere. I mean i can see labels in college where ur BF could be a potential husband, but thats different. When guys ask me to be their GF, i just say i'll go on dates with them. I feel anyone who slaps on the GF/BF label is claiming this one person so everyone knows. Does anyone feel the same?


Also, does anyone think that girls who have a million bfs are actually insecure? sometimes I think girls go out w/ guys in highschool just to brag to other girls, because getting a guy is like showing other girls that theyre the most beautiful, so they're better.

i was kinda rambling there, but if any of you understand what I mean, dont be afraid to post your opinions.

[swimgirlarc]

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I understand what all of you are saying, but that's just my opinion. I live in a somewhat poor community and go to a public school, and most of the relationships that went on after highschool ended in divorce or fights. Last year, a couple that was dating since highschool broke up, and the guy came to the girl's house and shot her sister and new boyfriend. I really do understand what you're saying, but after highschool, people take different paths. People change alot in college, and if a couple isn't going to the same college, they have different experiences, etc etc.

Maybe in depends what kind of highschool you go to. I've never really gone to a school where the majority of the kids are from upper middle class/ upper class families, so I wouldnt really know.

aaaand there have many studies on this, so its not entirely a generalization.