shyness or disinterest?, help |
 Apr 4 2006, 07:17 PM
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Ok so this is my first official relationship with a guy and well i really like him. It took him three weeks to ask me out. lol. He's a football player so the entire football team was informed about him wanting to ask me and then him finally asking. They were always around to bother. So he walks me to class and hugs me goodbye. That's it. Should I be concerned? We've only been together two weeks this friday (April 7th), but he hasn't even held my hand. We've known each other since the beginning of the school year and see each other everyday, but he doesn't even call me. He lost his cell and my number was in it and he only has a cell phone not a home phone... so yea we've never talked on the phone. Things just get complicated sometime...I've done more with my unofficial boyfriends then with my first official. I mean I'm way more comfortable around guys than i was before, but i get shy around him. Complicated.... err what do you guys think? What should i do?
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Apr 5 2006, 04:33 PM
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Thanks you guys! Yea him and I are going to spend sometime together tomorrow and I'm really glad he's moving slow paced because that gives me time to get use to the idea of him and I together. We've never really even talked about the us subject but I really like him and if he doesn't take the initiative i'm going to go for it. Its not like i'm trying to get him to make out with me. I just want to take a small step and hold his hand or something because I chose him over another guy because the other guy was a lot more into the physical stuff and I wasn't into that. I have to have a connection with someone as well as attraction.
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TearsOfAPhoenix shyness or disinterest? Apr 4 2006, 07:17 PM
Kounouri Don't worry about it. Some guys are just slowm... Apr 4 2006, 07:40 PM TearsOfAPhoenix That's exactly the way i'm looking at it. ... Apr 4 2006, 07:51 PM xXMomoBubbleTeaXx I would definitly call that shyness. I mean if you... Apr 4 2006, 08:21 PM _sarcastic_ ^i agree. he's just shy, it's alright if h... Apr 4 2006, 08:55 PM silver rain Yeah, it does sound like he's kinda shy. Me an... Apr 4 2006, 09:03 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b You havent even gone out for a 2 weeks yet, you sh... Apr 4 2006, 09:19 PM My Cinderella. It's definately shyness kicking in. I remember... Apr 4 2006, 09:22 PM
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