shyness or disinterest?, help Options

[TearsOfAPhoenix]

Ok so this is my first official relationship with a guy and well i really like him. It took him three weeks to ask me out. lol. He's a football player so the entire football team was informed about him wanting to ask me and then him finally asking. They were always around to bother. So he walks me to class and hugs me goodbye. That's it. Should I be concerned? We've only been together two weeks this friday (April 7th), but he hasn't even held my hand. We've known each other since the beginning of the school year and see each other everyday, but he doesn't even call me. He lost his cell and my number was in it and he only has a cell phone not a home phone... so yea we've never talked on the phone. Things just get complicated sometime...I've done more with my unofficial boyfriends then with my first official. I mean I'm way more comfortable around guys than i was before, but i get shy around him. Complicated.... err what do you guys think? What should i do?

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

You havent even gone out for a 2 weeks yet, you should be happy this guys not trying to fist your boobs all the time and grope your ass, unless thats what you want. If you want him to hold your hand, or kiss you, maybe you should take a hold of his hand instead of waiting around and complaining and worrying about it. Dont mean to sound harsh but, seriously. Take the first step.

Well, you cant really blame anyone for not being able to talk on the phone. He has no device to call you. Just hang out afterschool and on weeknights, and maybe during those times when you're not talking you can get to the physical stuff you want him to do with you.