shyness or disinterest?, help |
 Apr 4 2006, 07:17 PM
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Ok so this is my first official relationship with a guy and well i really like him. It took him three weeks to ask me out. lol. He's a football player so the entire football team was informed about him wanting to ask me and then him finally asking. They were always around to bother. So he walks me to class and hugs me goodbye. That's it. Should I be concerned? We've only been together two weeks this friday (April 7th), but he hasn't even held my hand. We've known each other since the beginning of the school year and see each other everyday, but he doesn't even call me. He lost his cell and my number was in it and he only has a cell phone not a home phone... so yea we've never talked on the phone. Things just get complicated sometime...I've done more with my unofficial boyfriends then with my first official. I mean I'm way more comfortable around guys than i was before, but i get shy around him. Complicated.... err what do you guys think? What should i do?
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Apr 4 2006, 09:03 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, it does sound like he's kinda shy. Me and my first boyfriend were like that; we barely did anything but it was because it was our first relationships and we weren't sure what to do.
But yeah, you two should just spend some time with each other alone getting to know each other and getting more comfortable with each other. It's a good thing that he's moving slower, he doesn't want to push you or do anything to make you feel uncomfortable. And besides, it's only been 2 weeks. Give it some time. If you want anything to happen, you can make the first move by holding his hand, etc. |
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TearsOfAPhoenix shyness or disinterest? Apr 4 2006, 07:17 PM
Kounouri Don't worry about it. Some guys are just slowm... Apr 4 2006, 07:40 PM TearsOfAPhoenix That's exactly the way i'm looking at it. ... Apr 4 2006, 07:51 PM xXMomoBubbleTeaXx I would definitly call that shyness. I mean if you... Apr 4 2006, 08:21 PM _sarcastic_ ^i agree. he's just shy, it's alright if h... Apr 4 2006, 08:55 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b You havent even gone out for a 2 weeks yet, you sh... Apr 4 2006, 09:19 PM My Cinderella. It's definately shyness kicking in. I remember... Apr 4 2006, 09:22 PM
TearsOfAPhoenix Thanks you guys! Yea him and I are going to sp... Apr 5 2006, 04:33 PM |
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