shyness or disinterest?, help Options

[TearsOfAPhoenix]

Ok so this is my first official relationship with a guy and well i really like him. It took him three weeks to ask me out. lol. He's a football player so the entire football team was informed about him wanting to ask me and then him finally asking. They were always around to bother. So he walks me to class and hugs me goodbye. That's it. Should I be concerned? We've only been together two weeks this friday (April 7th), but he hasn't even held my hand. We've known each other since the beginning of the school year and see each other everyday, but he doesn't even call me. He lost his cell and my number was in it and he only has a cell phone not a home phone... so yea we've never talked on the phone. Things just get complicated sometime...I've done more with my unofficial boyfriends then with my first official. I mean I'm way more comfortable around guys than i was before, but i get shy around him. Complicated.... err what do you guys think? What should i do?

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

I would definitly call that shyness. I mean if you're shy && he's kind of shy.. It's jusst the nerves that are gettin to the both of you right now.. How about you guys plan a relaxing date like bowling, putt putting, the movies, ice-skating, a walk in the park, or something that will make you guys feel more comfortable with each other, but also give you guys a chance to talk. So then things won't feel so awkward at school && he'll gain the courage to actaully hold your hand in public down the halls && you'll be able to talk to him like you have some sense.. So he won't think you like other guys since you can talk to them better than you can talk to him. Hopefully, I helped you out a little.. Yeahh sometimes when you really like someone all you can really do is choke on your words to say.. or forget a tiny detail by holding their hand b/c your hands to sweaty && your to scared to know what the other person might actually think of you!..