help. serious boy issues. |
help. serious boy issues. |
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alli ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 ![]() |
okay girls i really need your help on this one.and ASAP!
okay so i met this guy at this party and we really hit it off.and i really started to like him. and i know he likes me. now the thing is he is a freshman and im a sophmore ..now im thinking thats not to big of a deal right? maybe i just always pictured my self w/ someone older not younger? but i really started to like him and weve hung out w/ some of our friends together and im starting to notice thats hes inmature and a little perverted. but maybe im over reacting.maybe he isnt that perverted.? but then again what guy isnt? but maybe im just looking at him wrong so he wont like me? im so confused. and this would be my first relationship.maybe im just scared..scared of being hurt.scared of being alone with him.scared in genera?? but all of a sudden i like dont want to talk to him. like if he IM's me i always say i g2g and get off even though i dont. whats happening to me? HELP!!!!! thanks for the help in advance. p.s. maybe im just freaking out( it would be my first relationship,first time for everything) |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 ![]() |
If your scared then I think you should overcome it.. && you're right my boyfriend says to me all the time that there's a first time for everything.. So I say you should go for it.. && if the maturity && the being perverted thing becomes a issue then jusst don't worry about him anymore.. b/c younger men are always a handful.. && sometimes it's nice to have a guy whose older than you && can take handle of a situation like a real man should do.. Do you want to be in a relationship or do you want to be a unpaid baby-sitter?.. it's your decision really!!. So yeahh, I say go for it if you're just scared b/c I was scared to actually have a relationship with my former boyfriend b/c usually my relationships only lasted for like 2 weeks, but now me && him are going on half a year!!.. =P
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