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crazi_in_love_08
post Apr 2 2006, 03:48 PM
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ok my friend thinks she is pregnant .. she doesnt want to tell her mom .. her boyfriend is 18 .. she said if she is pregnant she would like to get an abortion becuase she doesnt want to mess up her schooling .. would her boyfriend be able to take her and get an abortion without her parents knowing ??
 
 
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post Apr 4 2006, 04:17 PM
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^The raping/sueing stuff isn't about this topic. This topic is for whether or not the maybe-pregnant girl should tell her mom or not that she's a non-virgin.

Well, I probably wouldn't do this - but your friend should tell her mom. Like what one person said - the mother might actually be supportive and be with her on the abortion.

It wouldn't hurt for her just to tell her mom. Even if she does get mom, her mom can't do anything about it. What's done is done - and sex most likely isn't going to ruin a mother daughter relationship, ya know? Hopefully your friend's mom loves her daughter enough to understand the situation she's in, and help her cope through it.

However, your friend can just go through with the birth, and give it up for adoption. I don't know, this is seeming a little close-minded. Either death or having to live with the baby. Which isn't true.

If she gives it up for adoption, maybe she can ask an aunt, older sister or something like that to adopt it, and once your friend is ready to have her baby back. Or, if she wouldn't feel comfortable with that - fine. At least she would be able to watch her baby grow. It's just her decision. But she really should tell her mother about this.
 

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crazi_in_love_08   abortion ?   Apr 2 2006, 03:48 PM
Mandy11   I think the best thing would for her to tell her m...   Apr 2 2006, 03:52 PM
crazi_in_love_08   ok.. but would he be able to take her and get one ...   Apr 2 2006, 03:54 PM
cheerbee07   it depends on where your friend lives. check this...   Apr 2 2006, 04:04 PM
silver rain   It depends. But yeah, first check if in your state...   Apr 2 2006, 04:41 PM
anoniez   if it was recent (within the last week), she can g...   Apr 2 2006, 07:06 PM
My Cinderella.   Has your friend taken a pregnancy test yet? If not...   Apr 2 2006, 07:09 PM
Flavored Condom   There are clinics in certain areas that allow kids...   Apr 2 2006, 07:35 PM
_sarcastic_   check around, and double check again. just in case...   Apr 2 2006, 09:47 PM
Paradox of Life   At 18, abortion is a major health risk. It's e...   Apr 2 2006, 10:03 PM
Spec_R   okay got a random question...what if she lives in ...   Apr 2 2006, 10:15 PM
Flavored Condom   ^She can do so, I think, but I think it's way ...   Apr 2 2006, 10:16 PM
crazi_in_love_08   how much does an abortion cost ? she hasnt take th...   Apr 3 2006, 08:35 PM
yanners   QUOTE(crazi_in_love_08 @ Apr 4 2006, 9:35...   Apr 4 2006, 02:04 AM
silver rain   Well, I think she should get tested first before s...   Apr 3 2006, 09:52 PM
Spec_R   if her parents try to sue him but she said she lov...   Apr 4 2006, 06:03 AM
Ice Cream 4 U   ^The raping/sueing stuff isn't about this topi...   Apr 4 2006, 04:17 PM
marzipan   yes, take the test before u even assume that she...   Apr 4 2006, 04:19 PM
REBELnDISGUISE   Honestly... I'm against abortion. If your frie...   Apr 4 2006, 04:31 PM
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx   Yeah, she can get an abortion without her parents ...   Apr 4 2006, 05:40 PM


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