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 Apr 3 2006, 10:06 AM
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Ok, so this is probably pointless and if there's antother topic like this I'm sorry. My best friend [A] met this one guy [J] and she started really liking him. Thing is, whenever she likes a guy she introduces them to me. So me and J always talk on the phone (more than they do) and talk online. The only thing keeping me from liking him was the fact that I never met him. Yesterday, he invited me to the mall (and like a f**king retarded I went) well now I'm really starting to like him, and A thinks he likes me back. The thing is, he doesn't even go to my school, he goes to A's. My friend wasn't with us yesterday so I was flirting with him like mad crazy and now I feel a little bad. I don't know what to do. Should I back off, or pursue the guy my best friend likes?
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Apr 3 2006, 04:47 PM
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Consider the following...
1.) How much does your friend really like this guy? 2.) Would your friend be happy for you if you and the guy started dating? 3.) What is more important, a best friend or a guy? 4.) Exactly how would your friend react if she knew you really liked him? Basically it's just a matter of what's more important, and how your friend would feel. If she starts not liking him, then great, I'd say keep pursuing this guy, but if she does really like him, then you should probably back off and not damage a good friendship. |
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TAiNTEDxMEMORiES Best Friend? Apr 3 2006, 10:06 AM
chococat15 do you care more about your friend or the guy? if ... Apr 3 2006, 05:05 PM My Cinderella. Well look at your opinions. You have you best frie... Apr 3 2006, 05:17 PM _sarcastic_ it's completely up to you actually.
is this gu... Apr 3 2006, 08:13 PM hottiebheibi if you continue this "thing" with [J] i ... Apr 3 2006, 10:04 PM REBELnDISGUISE What I'd do is pursue him... When you like som... Apr 4 2006, 04:34 PM Ice Cream 4 U Well, it kinda sounds like he likes you back. You ... Apr 4 2006, 04:58 PM xXMomoBubbleTeaXx 3 Words
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Honestly, if you're i... Apr 4 2006, 05:19 PM TAiNTEDxMEMORiES Thanks guys. He said he liked us both. But he aske... Apr 27 2006, 07:33 PM ashopely Aw I'm sorry. =( Apr 27 2006, 08:07 PM
priyas If he likes you back, go for it. guys arent proper... Apr 27 2006, 11:01 PM |
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