What is wrong with me?, I just don't understand. |
What is wrong with me?, I just don't understand. |
*Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
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I'm smart, funny, outgoing, nice, kind, EVERYTHING. Maybe I don't have the fittest body, a bit of chunk here and there, but I'm not entirely ugly or anything. I just don't understand why I haven't found at least one guy that feels something for me. Maybe it's just wrong place, wrong time... Has anybody else experienced this frustration with the opposite sex?!
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*mipadi* |
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I can relate to your situation. Back when I was in high school, I was pretty unsuccessful in terms of relationships. I chalked it up to not being "cool" or "handsome" enough, or girls being superficial and "stupid". But that wasn't it at all. I was an okay guy. I looked fine. My problem was in a lack of self-confidence. I was too afraid to take a chance.
Your situation seems similar. Guys like confidence. As crazy as it sounds, it really does attract them—that's why girls who are sure of themselves seem to get all the guys. I'd say just examine who you are, and be happy with that person. You might not always get the guy you want, but eventually you'll meet someone really, really cool with whom you are a perfect fit. |
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