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 Mar 31 2006, 10:50 PM
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Alot of people say your virginity is important, but is it really?. I don't understand why it's such a big deal I just lost my virginity not to long ago. && when I lost it. It wasn't as big of a deal as I thought it would be. I did it with the person I loved && I'm going to marry. I feel like if you love the person you're with & it's not a one night stand.. && you've been dating for awhile && you have a deep trust it's okay, but other than that then I think you need to set aside your priorities && ask yourself if this is the best possible choice for you not listening to those empty desires. I mean he was clean I was clean && we jusst took our relationship to a deeper level. Most people say it gets worse after sex when you're in high school b/c of the jealousy && you weren't ready for that kind of emotional stage, but it's brought me and my future husband closer not further apart. I mean I know that's what it's suppose to do, but it's brought us closer with trust && having it with one another I mean we had it before, but it made it stronger with the tie of sex. Now we do it like all the time like we're a married couple.
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Apr 1 2006, 04:25 AM
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 In life, make choices & don't look back Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 336,891 |
to me, virginity is very important because it's something that describe pure? It's something that money can't buy and also a gift from God. Most girls now days are influenced by medias and turn into $luts? But I personally think it's ment to be broken from a person that you will be forever with. Those party girls act like virginites is nothing but it's actually important because you can't be virgins again. It's once in a life time, and wouldn't you want to give it to someone who is important enough or reward that person that you saved your whole life for? Maybe i'm wrong to some of you guys. You might say "well,if he loves me then even if i'm a virgin or not he shouldn't care" and i don't doubt that he would care if he loves you. But i'm pretty sure in his mind, he doesn't want the one he loves sleeping with a lot of other guys. If you love him, you'll wait for him.
 p.s. please don't say well she/he is my future wife/husband. You never know so don't put all your hopes in it. What if you guys broke up? I...I thought the girl that I lost my virginity to is my future wife. I thought that we would spend our whole life together. But I guess times changed people changed... She broke up with me for another guy... I was mad that my love for her is for real but I lost it to some stupid player! |
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xXMomoBubbleTeaXx V!RG!N!TY Mar 31 2006, 10:50 PM
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