what should i do..., i need advice.. Options

[waterbottle]

ok i dont realy like hurting her feelings and yeah she has lost almost all hope in me now because i have said and planned that i will sleep over at her house but it turned out that i could not ...and then she would get realy mad and disapointed in me and i told her that i would today and now she is just tired of me...i told her i will try and see her this morning and she is like NO dont..and keeps repeating NO NO NO NO.... and yeah thats most of it but too much to type...i dont know what to do right now... i am realy lost... i want to see her badly but there are relay bad concequences...but she dont want me to come but at first she realy wanted me to come badly or so i thought...aparently she didnt even have hope in me comming at all ...so yeah i dont know..im lost dont kno what to do... i asked her if i could try seeing her on monday she wa slike NO ...and blah i dont know i feel soo gay doing this thing and posting a dam forum on it =\ blah

[Chii]

To you this might seem petty but to her it may mean the world. When my man asked me to spend the night, he wanted it to be special which is why he helped me convince my parents to let me go...by him helping I mean him asking his female friend to pretend to be my friend and invite me to a sleepover.

I was wondering why he was so adamant about me sleeping over, I did think it was a pretty big deal but not that big of a deal. It turned out that he really wanted me to spend the night because he wanted it to be special when he told me that he decided to take the next step in our relationship.

Whether she's your girlfriend or just your friend, go talk to her and like truly apologize. Tell her you're sorry that you couldn't sleep over, you really wanted to but just couldn't. Next time, don't make commitments until you know you can fulfill them.