bizarre friend problem, not sure if this is right Options

[trainspotting011...]

i recently returned from a 5 day trip with a group of friends. I have a close ( what i think ) is a brother sister relationship with a guy friend of mine.

A special thing that we have with each other is that he pets my hair ( like a cat sorta) and these past times i would fall asleep.

my dreams during these periods of sleep were riddled with sexual thoughts (not of him) and intense feelings. Not to be overly graphic, but i had orgasmed more than once in my sleep.

one time i woke slightly, to my hand being tugged and moved. he had placed my hand on his crotch where he was fully errect.

this boy is like my brother, if i had known it was him, i doubt i would have been at all aroused.

major problem: he has a steady girlfriend, is has NEVER done anything like this before, he is a polite, smart, funny, pleasant person. and he hasnt mentioned anything and believes i have no idea, because i am such a heavy sleeper.


HELP! should i confont him?!?

[Chii]

He sexually harassed you, don't try to be polite about it. HE is the one who is wrong, not you. Just tell him that you want to talk about that incident when you woke up and felt your hand placed on his crotch and tell him how you feel about him victimizing you like that.

I doubt he forgot, he probably just doesn't want you to talk about it. Tell him how you feel, tell him that it was wrong, etc. He isn't that great of a friend to begin with if he did that to you while you were so vulnerable.