I'm dating a..college guy, don't know who or when to tell people |
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 Mar 28 2006, 09:38 PM
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Okay, so I am dating this guy and he is in college. I never thought I would end up dating a college guy. He is like one of my best friends though. I am his first girlfriend and he is my first boyfriend. The thing is he is also my older sister's friend. I want to quit lying to my parents and friends except i dont want my sister to find out. I just know if she finds out, im dead. She keeps saying i steal her friends. Just don't know how to handle this situation.
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Mar 30 2006, 10:20 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you!  Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Check her profile. It says she's 15. And this guy is at least 18. You can't have a real relationship unless your parents are involved. The longer you keep it a secret, the more upset your parents will be when they find out ("YOU'VE BEEN DATING THIS GUY HOW LONG!? WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL US!?"). I suggest you tell your parents about him now (and ask them to keep it confidential from your sister) and if they don't approve, just stay friends with the guy.
You're only 15. You shouldn't have to deal with the drama of holding a secret. If you're having to hide a relationship from your parents, maybe it's a sign that you're starting a bit too early. |
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xpinaysweetnessx I'm dating a..college guy Mar 28 2006, 09:38 PM
chococat15 QUOTE(xpinaysweetnessx @ Mar 28 2006, 8:3... Mar 28 2006, 09:41 PM priyas its up to you. if you love him and he loves you, y... Mar 28 2006, 11:58 PM silver rain How old are you and how old is he?
Well, I think y... Mar 29 2006, 12:26 AM Chii You can't have it all. You can't just tell... Mar 29 2006, 01:18 AM newyork__lies QUOTEShe keeps saying i steal her friends.
Okay... Mar 29 2006, 12:05 PM _sarcastic_ it's better to tell her than to let her find o... Mar 29 2006, 04:23 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK I think you're paranoid about the parents. But... Mar 29 2006, 05:27 PM sillakilla220 sounds like if u dont want to piss your sister off... Mar 29 2006, 08:20 PM subway i dont how old is he and how old are you?
and you ... Mar 30 2006, 05:15 PM xpinaysweetnessx My sister..shes mean and controlling..i'll put... Mar 30 2006, 08:08 PM pastellove_ you still havent answered how old are you and how ... Mar 30 2006, 10:12 PM
myplasticfriends my boyfriend is 19 and i turn 16 this summer.
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