Aftermath of a long term realationship |
 Jan 23 2006, 11:56 PM
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How do you cope with breaking up in a long term realationships?
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Mar 9 2006, 09:52 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
I really take it hard.
My current boyfriend has broken up with me FOUR times. But I keep going back to him because I just love him. It's hard to explain. I've created such a strong emotional bond that it seems impossible for me to be with anyone else. Call me a little psycho, but.. At first when he broke up with me I was SO pissed. Like, swearing everything to hell. But then I got majorly depressed. Like it was my fault. I think What did I do wrong? I go through everything we went through in my head and it just makes me cry, thinking that it will never happen again. I guess I'm just trying to be happy now with him but I'm so paranoid..even if I tell him I'm not. But to sum up all that mush, I take it pretty hard like any normal girl. I talk too much. |
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Mar 30 2006, 08:50 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(x Ragazza @ Mar 9 2006, 7:52 AM)  I really take it hard. My current boyfriend has broken up with me FOUR times. But I keep going back to him because I just love him. It's hard to explain. I've created such a strong emotional bond that it seems impossible for me to be with anyone else. At first when he broke up with me I was SO pissed. Like, swearing everything to hell. But then I got majorly depressed. Like it was my fault. I think What did I do wrong? I go through everything we went through in my head and it just makes me cry, thinking that it will never happen again.  That is exactly like me. Except right now, it is ex-boyfriend and probably will stay that way.It is so hard to not be friends. We have been together and seen eachother basically everyday for a year and a 1/2 and to go cold turkey is almost impossible. Our friends are the same and we have classes together. Plus, we are young and stupid and have hooked up twice since the break up. It is so hard because it feels amazing when we are together and alone but I know I should move on. I already don't have as strong as feelings for him as I did before (I'm not in love), I just like being with him. |
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